Guest Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 i met her last year and I really like this girl , i really do. She is so sweet and we get along very well. And she is smart , pretty , funny and she can click with my friends as well. But then i was avoiding her since i have to leave because of my job placement in NY. I was acting like an asshol*, because I didnt want to hurt her. I cancelled our dinner and dates and I made her down several time . I hoped she would hate me and it would help her to forgive me even quicker. So after that we never contacte each other.After I've moved to NY , I gave my self a break in Bahama for holiday with friends. I thought it would be a lot easier for me to forget her since i am far away and she is not around. But I kept on thinking about her and I missed her even up to now . I think it is hopeless , because I have done bad things to her and she is so far away. For time to time, i wonder if i have made a huge mistake to let her down like that. Because she never contacted me after what i have done to her. Her sweet face kept on popping up in my mind and i remember how happy i was with her. She really made me happy ,and it was never boring everytime i met her. I do wonder what would be the best to do ? I cant go to her place and if i go for LDR it would be really difficult for both of us since we are thousand miles a part, 12 hrs time difference , yet i dont know if i will loose her forever. what to do ? if you were me , what would you do ?
daph Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 i met her last year and I really like this girl , i really do. She is so sweet and we get along very well. And she is smart , pretty , funny and she can click with my friends as well. But then i was avoiding her since i have to leave because of my job placement in NY. I was acting like an asshol*, because I didnt want to hurt her. I cancelled our dinner and dates and I made her down several time . I hoped she would hate me and it would help her to forgive me even quicker. So after that we never contacte each other.After I've moved to NY , I gave my self a break in Bahama for holiday with friends. I thought it would be a lot easier for me to forget her since i am far away and she is not around. But I kept on thinking about her and I missed her even up to now . I think it is hopeless , because I have done bad things to her and she is so far away. For time to time, i wonder if i have made a huge mistake to let her down like that. Because she never contacted me after what i have done to her. Her sweet face kept on popping up in my mind and i remember how happy i was with her. She really made me happy ,and it was never boring everytime i met her. I do wonder what would be the best to do ? I cant go to her place and if i go for LDR it would be really difficult for both of us since we are thousand miles a part, 12 hrs time difference , yet i dont know if i will loose her forever. what to do ? if you were me , what would you do ? i think it is kinda too late to think about getting her back. since u are now so far away and you have put her down and it has been a month. If she loved you last time, she might still love you now but i think the way she had been treated is enough to make her stop contacting you . She sounds like a really nice gal. If now you think you may have done a huge mistake n yet you dont want to try to take the risk then forget it. You dont deserve her .
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