chill chic Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 I've been talking with this guy for about a month now, but I'm starting to really like him more than a guy friend. Anyway, he asked me what my friends are like and I told him that I have all different types of friends, some are wild, some are funny, & some are mild/chill. I was telling him that one of my friends likes it when I get us in the vip section. I also said that my other friend likes it when I'm around because it's more fun, but that's just me, I like to have fun. BUT I hope telling him this stuff won't make him think that I'm too wild to tame, because he said awhile back that is ex cheated on him. So, I don't want him to have an impression of me if I just like to have fun. He told me "so you're the leader of the group?" and I said yah sometimes, but that it depends on my mood. I also told him I was a good girl, and when it's time to get settled with someone, (I mean't bf/gf, but I don't know if he thought marriage) and now that I have a good career, I'm becoming more responsible and less wild when I go out. Anyway, long story short, I told him all of that, and it didn't seem to bother him, but I don't want him to already have an impression of me. FYI I met him through a friend that lives out of town, which he does too, so how do I convince him, until I see him, that I'm trustworthy after all that said? Also..I can tell we both obviously like each other, but since we're sorta long distance for now, should I ask him if guys come around & want to date me, of what I should do, like if I should decline the offer? I guess I've never dealt with a guy that has been cheated on, and me being sort of a party-er, how do I handle this? We don't want to really make anything serious right now because we're long distance, but that could change. Help! How do I handle something like this?
alextop30 Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 ok from younger guy's perspective I don't believe a girl can be wilder than I could be- I would do, say just about any stupid I love to dance when ever I go to dance club I literally dont get off the dance floor. So wild girls for me no such a thing but I have something agaist long distance relationships coz I dont believe that they could be maintained for a long time but I could be wrong, well about your situation I would have to tell you if you really like him really like him do decline the offers from the other guys but don't try to controll your wildness, you have to be yourself or it really doesnt cound. After all you never know if he really does like wild girls. I dont know about most guys but I love wild girls I think it is really hot. So just be yourself and everything will go according to plan Plans are those things that keep getting altered but at the end the result is what we desired!!!!
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