Dubb Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Well after reading through some stuff it seems I screwed up a bit but let me give you guys a fast run down. I already have my opinion on what has happen but it never hurts to get an outside point of view. I worked with a girl who was in a 5 year relationship. They broke up a few times and seemed to have some problems. He cheated on her too. They broke up and actually got into new relationships for a few months. They tried to give it one more go but it didn't work. During the end we became pretty close friends. We talked a lot and I could tell she just started to like me. Well I lost a brother soon after and she really was there for me. We started to hook up and things took off. She bought a house and I spent most of my time there. She wanted me there all the time. We actually had a few fights b/c of it. We were only together for 5 months but it was a good 6 or 7 days a week. I pretty much lived with her. Well one night we got into a fight and she just freaked on me and said she felt she has been fighting for 6 years and needs a break. Bells went off right away when I heard that. I spent the next week trying to work it out with her. She was freaking out to the point where I actually felt like she was going to stay with me. Things got worse so I told her I was going to move on. She asked me if I meant it and I told her I didn't want to talk about us. She texed me and said I will never hear from her again and she hopes I am happier w/o her. I didn't respond and she texed me back like 15 mins later says she can't believe me. Few days go by and I started to regret it. I IMed her and told her I didn't mean it. She kinda freaked and said I can't do that since I told her I moved on. She put me on a break and said maybe it will last for a little bit or maybe forever. I told her I would lose her and she said why you're the best BF I have ever had. I tried a few more times to talk to her but she kept saying she didn't want to be upset. I stayed off AIM for a week and when I went back I ignored her. After a few days of ignoring her she signs off the minute I sign on. I freaked out and emailed her and and told her I was not doing it to be an ass and I still wanted to work things out. We didn't get far and things seemed to get worse. She came back a few weeks later and told me she still felt the same about me and still missed me. She said she just need more time. I talked to her a few days later and she kinda made me feel like she didn't want to be bothered. We got into a fight and I stopped talking to her. She texed me on New Years and I ignored her. She is 23 and has never really got alone time so I think that might have a lot to do with it. Sorry this is so long but I actually left out a lot of details b/c this thing has dragged on for so long.
Author Dubb Posted February 1, 2007 Author Posted February 1, 2007 Anyone got any advice? I caught her checking out my Myspace page a few weeks ago. I wrote her a letter after I had time to think about things and she came back with I never wanted to just stop talking to you. I IMed her last weekend after a good 3 weeks of NC. I asked her to tell me what she was thinking and feeling. I told her I could handle it. Instead I got I don't want to talk about us. Being put on a break blows. It is so hard to move on when someone makes you feel like they have feelings for you still. Any advice from anyone would help.
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