Guest Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Let me start off by saying I really tried my best over the past week not to make this an issue, but things just got to me and i had to get others opinions. Just a quick overview as most of been very helpful to me over the past 3 month: When my ex and I broke up she kept calling and we were friendly to each other. She would text a few times and call every couple of days to talk. Then out of nowhere she told me she didnt see herself in a relationship with me anymore. Turns out she ended up getting back together with an ex, and got engaged 6 weeks after we broke up.After that we had a VERY rocky breakup, saying very mean things to each other utnil we just quit speaking. W Well for whatever reason, Christmas eve I IM'd her and said, merry christmas. She responed with the saem thing and later in the week IM'd me to say hope I have a happy new year. On new years day she sent a mass text about a football team we all like. I replied with a "Happy New Year" Last weekend i was told by a friend that my ex had sent everyone a text message saying "Dont call me tonight, I already told my mom, I had to follow my instincts and call it off" Well the joke of course was that she sent it out so I would hear it thru the grapevine and go back to her, but i refused to even think that way. 2 nights after this she IM's me on the computer and says "Just wanted to say hi..." and asked about my new job and we bs'd. She then said "I was shocked, but pleasently surprised by my new years wish, Thanks a bunch" I wasnt sure what she was talkign about and she said it was when i texted and said hope she had a happy new year. I just thought that was strange since the week before we both told each other Merry Christmas. She then told me her and two of my friends girlriends were goin otu all weekend for their birthdays. She said, "Well I had a pretty rough weekend so im goin to bed" So i dont know if she wanted me to say something or what?? I just left it at that and 2 nights later she IM'd me again. She said "Goodnight" so i said goodnight. then she told me that her small dog had lifted his leg to pee for the first time, and said "im the proud parent of a big dog now" just in a jokign way. i just said goodnight again and she siad "nite, had to share" Well of course that kind of raised my eyebrow a bit. The week she calls off her engagement, she contacts me for some, pretty silly reasons. Even tho it was on my mind I told myself REPEATEDLY to not let this even be on my mind, but I couldnt help it. She was out with a couple of my friends gf's all weekend celebrating their birthdays. She kept texting my other friends gf who was with us all day saturday trying to get her to come out. Today was her birthday and I had planned since the breakup not to even tell her happy birthday, like my lifes so busy i didnt even remember. Well with her contacting me the past couple times and it weighing on my mind I text her a simple "happy birthday" As much as I denied it, Im not sure what i was hoping her reaction would be but i knew i wanted one. When i checked my phone she just replied with a "Thanks a bunch!" Like I said, I KNEW it was stupid to even worry about this but i couldnt help it. I figure she was just feeling guilty about calling off the engagement and needed the friendship of someone who's heart she broke just months before. But like I said, i couldnt help it. I just wanted to get some thoughts on this. I mean, IM'ing just to tell me her dog lifted his leg to pee for the first time?? lol, there was no one else she could have told that? Anyone have any opinions on what to think, and if i did the write or wrong thing by acknowledging her birthday? Thanks in advance
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