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Heres an interesting problem...

 

Ill start with the background....

 

Me and my mate used to go out with these two girls who were mates, for more than a year. We got to together and split up at about the same time.

 

Anyway everyones over everyone else, this was about a year and half ago.

 

Now ive been chatting to this girl who's mates with the two girls...

 

I really get the impression she's interested, but is holding back. Shes a complete workaholic at the minute, shes got loads of work on so i was thinking it was just that. ive not been pushing anything, just seeing what happens.

 

Anyway i ask her round to play some poker tonight and she seems interested to do something for once! When i say it will be at my friends house she gets unresponsive and then comes out with...

 

"It would be awkward doing stuff with you two as your my friends exs."

 

That killed it lol

 

What do u reckon. I don't really even know the girl, but we have lots of similar interests and seem to get on really well :)

 

Do you think i should drop it?

 

 

Rocket

Posted

You wanna actually try an hit on this girl/find out more about your situation? Then get her alone. Ask to do something meant for the two of you. Then bombs away! The problem's been cleared.

 

Should you continue? How bad do you want this girl? That's for you to decide, not any of us.

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Do you think i should drop it?

no....she is friends with those two girls. she does not want word gettin out that you are doing her cause it'll ruin her freindship with those two chicks. you'll need to see her in secret for a while until you two are solid. basically she doesn't want to ruin her friendships just for casual sex. but she will ruin the friendships for a relationship with you.

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Well yeah obviously alone would be best, but shes been resistant...

 

I asked to do some stuff with friends to see if she'd be more open to that and thats how ive got this reason out of her.

 

Thats obviously why shes been against seeing me, even though i know she wants it :p

 

Ha. Anyway that date that cancelled the other night text back and rescheduled! Winner!

 

 

Rocket

Posted

Cool man, tell me how it goes I'm interested.

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