alextop30 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 title kind of says it for itself but what do you girls think about pickup lines and I am talking about creative EX: "Your eyes told me everything except your name" do you believe that this is lame or is it qute or do u totally get turn down. I am talking in a college environment where u generally busy and dont pay much attention to the world... It would be nice to get some good feed back I can use in my college because the women in there are my definition of a model and I cannot wait to approach them and maybe maybe get a date or two...
guin_girl Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 I would laugh at you if you said that to me... but then I laugh at everything... the best thing is to just be straight up... "Hi, I couldn't help but notice you, my name is...." even if it's someone I wouldn't have talked to generally, just the fact they came up to me sincerely, I will give them the respect of having a conversation with... and then you never know...
Author alextop30 Posted January 27, 2007 Author Posted January 27, 2007 I officially love u, just gave me a great way to strike a conversation thanks I spent so much time on pickup lines that I forgot something simple!!!!
Lauriebell82 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 yeah i totally agree, sincerity is the best way to go..stupid pick up lines are dumb. i too would laugh if u tried to say something like that. just be urself, thats he best way to go.
lindya Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 title kind of says it for itself but what do you girls think about pickup lines and I am talking about creative EX: "Your eyes told me everything except your name" Ugh! I'm sorry but that is absolutely dire. Pick up lines generally are, because people attempt to use them as a replacement for the communication skills that transmit a subtle, sexy and effective "I want you" message. Catching someone's gaze, holding it and giving them a flirtatious smile is everything. If you do that successfully, you've pretty much got it nailed and "hi, my name's X - can I get you a drink" will be ample.
Cous Cous With Goose Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Pick up lines are lame..unless you're trying to score with a chick that doesn't get much attention. Even then I don't use them. But if you want to use them, you have to be sincere about it. And when you use them, don't use ones that tell her you like her physical attributes, although eyes and if you reall love her hair that can be an exception. Like say if you hear her talking, tell her she has a sexy voice or you like how she carries herself. Then continue on, my good man! Imo I believe pickup lines show a man doesn't have enough confidence to simply introduce himself to a girl he likes
guin_girl Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 although eyes and if you reall love her hair that can be an exception. ahhhh so that's why so many guys comment on my waist length hair
Cous Cous With Goose Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 ahhhh so that's why so many guys comment on my waist length hair lol well u gotta mean it, and u gotta make a comment that someone like u hasn't heard before or shows you look at something other than boobs and butt. Well, what do they say? I'm kinda curious. Like, if it's something obvious like you have your hair made in some crazy way no comment about it is probably gonna work unless you're REALLY good at complimenting. Like me, if I saw you I'd probably mention your hair color or something because guys probably focus on ur long hair so much they don't think about the color. But I could be wrong.
Bamaboy2006 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Girls generally hate pickup lines. I tried it with the one girlfriend I had and it completely burned me.
guin_girl Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Well, what do they say? I'm kinda curious. Like, if it's something obvious like you have your hair made in some crazy way no comment about it is probably gonna work unless you're REALLY good at complimenting. Like me, if I saw you I'd probably mention your hair color or something because guys probably focus on ur long hair so much they don't think about the color. But I could be wrong. well actually last night, I had two compliments on it... I just wear it straight... I don't color it or anything... but usually I get "I just love long hair on women, it looks very pretty" very simple and to the point... what bothers me though is when guys will reach out and touch it... I don't want my space invaded... especially when I'm just meeting you. unfortunately for what ever reason, many people will touch my hair...
Cous Cous With Goose Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 well actually last night, I had two compliments on it... I just wear it straight... I don't color it or anything... but usually I get "I just love long hair on women, it looks very pretty" very simple and to the point... what bothers me though is when guys will reach out and touch it... I don't want my space invaded... especially when I'm just meeting you. unfortunately for what ever reason, many people will touch my hair... Yea lol that's the problem. Most guys think girls will love it when they compliment them. The problem is, you have to make a girl care about your opinion before you simply give it to her. And unless you're real good, the hair touching/playing will probably be a turnoff or show you're just plain desperate/weird in first meeting the girl. But it all depends on the personality of the girl. I prefer a light touch on the shoulder/arm area. It's not threatening to a girl and works well. I'm just curious, what kind of responses(like what a dumb question or how enthusiastic would you be to answer it etc) would these trigger from you? "Your hair is really long. Have you always liked it this way?" "I like a girl with long hair. It shows she has responsibility and makes decisions for herself. You know, many women prefer shorter hair because it's easier to take care of. You know what you want and you wouldn't have it any other way. I'm sure that's the type of woman most men would feel blessed to be with." "The color of your hair really brings out *insert facial feature*"
Author alextop30 Posted January 28, 2007 Author Posted January 28, 2007 how did this get to this place. All I wanted to ask is how girls feel if they are approached with a pickup line- I wanted to know if they believe it is lame or they would just get turned off right away or they would smile or something like that.
Author alextop30 Posted January 28, 2007 Author Posted January 28, 2007 how did this get to this place. All I wanted to ask is how girls feel if they are approached with a pickup line- I wanted to know if they believe it is lame or they would just get turned off right away or they would smile or something like that.
guin_girl Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 how did this get to this place. All I wanted to ask is how girls feel if they are approached with a pickup line- I wanted to know if they believe it is lame or they would just get turned off right away or they would smile or something like that. sorry, not quite sure, I was just giving an example and it got off track...
Citizen Erased Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 I find them stupid and pointless. When I hear them I automatically think that this guy has no communication skills, has nothing intelligent or interesting to say and so they are reverting to the cliche which is the pick-up line. I completely shut down and do not listen. First impressions are the most important so say something funny, interesting, or just "Hi". Anything but a pickup line.
Author alextop30 Posted January 28, 2007 Author Posted January 28, 2007 girls generally dont like pickup lines the thing is I try to think of my own and of something really original or creative so I do get their attention and have the girl talk because I am not a big talker and I kinna want to let her give her advice and be an active listener.
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