JimJ Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 The title pretty much says it all. Your thoughts please... Link to post Share on other sites
Porn_Guy Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 when you look down and your balls are missing Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 when you look down and your balls are missing That's the best laugh I've had in a few days now. How do you know you are in love? One way I guess, is when the other person's well being and happiness matter as much to you are your own. Link to post Share on other sites
Porn_Guy Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 That's the best laugh I've had in a few days now.. your welcome LCB Link to post Share on other sites
jusified Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 yea, you care about the persons wellbeing (they also feel the same way) more then anything, you want to make them happy, make sure their safe blah blah, along the lines of Lucrezia Link to post Share on other sites
Agent M Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 I don't know...I've always said I've never been in love. Everyone laughs at me. I guess I have the same question as you. People have tried to tell me that I've been in love, with guys that I've been no more than "hung up" on for one (childhood) reason or another. To me, craving someone b/c you have an unresolved childhood issue is not love. Some say it is like infatuation....but those I've been infatuated with are not those I've been in love with, only those that I'm either extrememly physically attracted to or those who give me some sort of high that is reminiscent of addiction. I know what real love is....like what I feel for my parents and siblings, but when it comes to being "in love", who knows. Perhaps it is a loose term for that high you get, whether it is justified and mentally healthy or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Hyacinth123 Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 When it's unselfish. When you care about the happiness of the other person without thoughts of what you might gain for yourself. Caring about their happiness unconditionally. They should accept you for who you are, flaws and all, and make you feel loved just the same. You know the worst things about them and you're okay with it. * Side point* (If you haven't seen their bad side and only see positives, you may not have grown enough in your relationship to say it's love) They should make you feel good about yourself, who you are inside, and support you in the things that are important to you. Makes an effort to get along with your friends even when you know s/he doesn't like them. Link to post Share on other sites
wrastler Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 To be honest, I don't know how to tell when you are in love. I think it is different for every person. It is just something that everyone needs to figure out for themselves. For myself, its not just caring about the other person's happiness. I have felt that before, but wouldn't say I was in love. Instead, I have been with my girl for 5 years, and I find myself still wishing to be by her side every moment of the day. So, for me it has been the ability to keep that butterflies in the stomach feeling alive since the day I met her. So as long as it feels right, it probably is Link to post Share on other sites
Reckless Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 How do you know if you're in love?... Well it's like hunger, hard to describe but everyone more or less recognises it when you feel it... then again... they say sometimes you THINK you're hungry when in fact your body needs fluids so love like hunger is a pretty distinct feeling but sometimes we mistake it for something its not (like infatuation)... Then again... infatuation and love feel similar 'cept love lasts and infatuation burns itself out... as Shakespeare wrote "..Love is not love; Which alters when it alteration finds.." What was the question again..?! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 u know u are in love when there is simply nothing u both cannot talk about and have done so forever. my gf sometimes thinks she has nothing really important to say or that she can't think of anything, then she goes on for 3 months telling me great stories, important info, sharing dreams and her thoughts - there is NOTHING we can't talk about in an open honest and respectful playful way. for example - here is something i did not know And depending on where she in her cycle, it can hurt more. At certain points the cervix is softer and up higher, at other times it is lower and harder. The vaginal canal is generally an average of 3-4" deep, so it has to stretch to accomodate, not everyone likes it if you go deep right away without proper prep, and even then it can be painful for some women. For me, I like it sometimes, other times it can be uncomfortable. A bruised cervix does not feel so good: you cannot go INTO it - the cervix is closed and only dilates for birth or if a doctor does so with drugs or instruments; but you can definitely bruise it and cause pain. Also, make sure she is very aroused as this makes the vagina deepen as well a bit and more likely to expand a bit more. Link to post Share on other sites
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