Guest Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 I have been reading through this forum with great interest. I was an OW but kicked him into touch (firmly but nicely) as he was constantly dithering about what he wanted. At the end of the day he agrees with the last person he talks to and hasn't got the character/inclination to commit to me and end his marriage. But I have noticed with some OW here and Frannie comes to mind, that she is all accepting of her MM;s decision to stay with the wife and almost welcomes it when she has been trying to get him to leave for some time. Now that he has the balls to say he isn't leaving she is backtracking and saying it's OK --she would feel bad about breaking up the happy family. Wgat crap--sorry. She has now become the permanent OW that he is using for a few stay overs during the week (does he get expenses back) and she is being used for sex and affection. Get a grip--he is not that in love with you. Stay if you want but don't pretend it is what you want.
Romeo Must Die Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 I have Fran Dresher in my mind when I picture frannie. She was working in a bridal shop in Flushing, Queens, Til her boyfriend kicked her out in one of those crushing scenes What was she to do? Where was she to go? She was out on her fanny. So over the bridge from Flushing To the Sheffield’s door, She was there to sell make-up but the father saw more (lmao no comment) She had style. She had flair. She was there. That’s how she became The Nanny.
frannie Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Never heard it, but I do wish I'd chosen another name sometimes, since this is a friend's name and it's probably being dragged through the mud on some 'parody' site somewhere... sorry 'frannie'
Romeo Must Die Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Thats a compliment. Fran Dresher plays a sexy, savvy Nanny on a CBS television sitcom called "The Nanny" and thats the theme song from the show. And yes Frannie got the guy, Mr. Sheffield although the wife in the story was deceased and it wasnt an affair. lol
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 I have been reading through this forum with great interest. I was an OW but kicked him into touch (firmly but nicely) as he was constantly dithering about what he wanted. At the end of the day he agrees with the last person he talks to and hasn't got the character/inclination to commit to me and end his marriage. How lucky for him. So your MM didn't just suddenly think "Wow, this woman is worth walking out on my marriage right now". Well, there's a surprise. Really?? But you sound so lovely! Yes, MM do dither sometimes as do MW. Maybe it wasn't just having the character/inclination - maybe he just didn't want to enter into a relationship with someone who found it so easy to leave him behind. But I have noticed with some OW here and Frannie comes to mind, that she is all accepting of her MM;s decision to stay with the wife and almost welcomes it when she has been trying to get him to leave for some time. Now that he has the balls to say he isn't leaving she is backtracking and saying it's OK --she would feel bad about breaking up the happy family. Wgat crap--sorry. He has the balls to say he isn't leaving? Is it easy to leave a marriage with children in it? Maybe he's just being honest that he doesn't want to see his children for a pizza on a Saturday and Frannie has asked herself whether her relationship is worthwhile EVEN if he doesn't leave his M. She has now become the permanent OW that he is using for a few stay overs during the week (does he get expenses back) and she is being used for sex and affection. Does he get his expenses back? Can I asked you a question? Was your A mainly based on sex? Because if it was it's not really a good correlation to compare it to a loving relationship. Get a grip--he is not that in love with you. Stay if you want but don't pretend it is what you want. "Stay if you want" - wow, Frannie will be so pleased that she's got the go ahead from you. You should really think about having your own chat show. Oprah's gonna be shaking in her boots... Frannie - you're FAMOUS!!! You've got your own thread!
Romeo Must Die Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 it's probably being dragged through the mud on some 'parody' site somewhere... sorry 'frannie' Life is a parody : )
vanilla chai Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Why in the world would he end his marriage? The man has his wife at home and his ow on the side. What a perfect setup(for him anyway).
NearlyThere Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Oooh a thread about me! I feel so special You got your own thread on here. I have one somewhere else as well. Dont take it to personally.
GreenEyedLady Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 I'm just curious why our "guest" cares so much...Frannie I think you have a fan...
2sunny Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 I'm just curious why our "guest" cares so much...Frannie I think you have a fan... Maybe it is the MM's wife????? :eek:
GreenEyedLady Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Maybe it is the MM's wife????? :eek: I don't think his W was ever an OW (at least not from what I remember)..."supposedly" the "guest" was an OW before...
frannie Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Oooh, it's still going Is it bad form to bounce your own fan thread..?
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