Nena Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 What happens when Anxiety Approach Guy and Shy Girl with weak signals stare at each other from across the room and like what they see? How does the story end?
Trystero Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Well, unless the guy wants to be assertive, it probably ends with bitterness and confusion for both sides, and then one of them ends up posting here. Really, though, it would be nice if it ended up being more positive for shy people sometimes, especially since I'm one of them.
LN99 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 You know what happens?? NOTHING!! Trust me, As a shy person myself and naturally being attracted to shy people....you just end up staring at each other and thats it! Then one or both people get fustrated and eventually one or the other moves on. So therefore, if something is going to happen, someone has to break the ice. Personally, I wouldn't wait around for the other person to do it, or you may be waiting forever. So, my advice to you is to make the first move. You already are getting the right signals. Why else would someone stare? Unless of course you have something crazy going on with your hair or something. But other then that, it indicates interest. So please do yourself a favor and at least attempt to make the first move so you won't sit there wondering what if...
monkey00 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 I'll tell you how it ends. One of you gets X friend, to try to break the ice and wind up introducing one to another, or perhaps even get the friend to do the asking out for you. Since both parties are shy, it is a solid option to get a friend to break the ice.
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