Guest Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 First time posting here-but been reading for a bit. Comforting to know other people are in the same situation. I've been seeing MM for 7 months, started as just a casual sex thing-but that didn't last for long. Anyway a few weeks ago, W got my cell phone # from searching through his and started calling me late and night blocking her number. MM confirmed that it was her calling me and asked her to stop calling me. He didn't admit anything about his relationship with me-just that we are friends. The calls didn't stop-w would call me, not say anything and hang up. Today I got another call from her. Told MM that I was going to confront her myself unless he gave me a reason not too. Basically he said that it seemed to not work on his end and he never told me not to… So we talked-for a long time. I didn't reveal anything about our relationship-told her we were just friends. BTW, I'm married too-but separated. She opened up pretty easier about problems with their marriage. She told me that at first she thought we were having an affair, but doesn’t think that any more…Said that they have problems but they are working it out. May meet this weekend to talk more-I think she needs a friend, but not really sure her motivation-maybe she’s thinking if she becomes my friend, I’ll spill the beans… After I spoke to her, told MM and we met for drinks. Told him she’s wants their marriage to work and if that is what he wants, I’ll step aside. He told me that he loves me-blah, blah blah. We were planning on getting a place together soon; he says that is still the plan. I joked around with him and told him that when I meet with her this weekend, I could tell her everything about us and well-he didn’t look frightened or anything, actually more relaxed about the situation than I thought he be. We didn’t have much time, but I told him he needs to meet me tonight so we could talk more… Just wanted anyone’s perspective on this-either what MM is thinking, or what W is thinking or even me, not really sure what I am thinking-kind of feel that the ball is in my court…
meinmke Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 sorry double post!!! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t110835/
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