Mixed Emotions

[scb77]

Hi guys, I would appreciate any advice!

 

So I met this guy at the beginning of October, he called all the time and we spent a lot of time together. Things started heating up, and I felt that he liked me more than I liked him. I had told him that I was going to be moving in March in I first met him. So, therefore I had to tell him that I thought we should just be friends. Well, then started backing off a little, I didn't really like that, so I told him I was just scared of getting too involved and then I have to move. So, the relationship progressed more, then in late November we started having sex. Everything was great for a while, but then he started backing off around Christmas. We started having arguments, and things just kind of went downhill for a while. We talked about it, and he said that I'm about to move and that he didn't expect to get all these emotions involved in our relationship. He told me that we should probably just try to be friends now, stop having sex and kissing. But then he said that he likes me more than a friend and he still wants to kiss but that that leads to sex.

 

So, I didn't talk to him for about a week after this conversation, then he called me and stopped by and was acting completely different then when we had left off. He was completely flirty and all over me, trying to kiss. I really wanted to, but knew that I shouldn't because I really care for him too, but knew that it would bring a whole bunch of emotions up again. So I left town and told him I would talk to him when I got back. Well he called me every other day for the week that I was out of town. Got back last wednesday, we hung out wednesday night and ended up kissing eachother goodbye when I left to hang out with my friends and he went to hang out with his. Then last night we went out on a date and ended up having sex again. He told me last night that he did not expect to have all these emotions and asked me what I wanted out of all of this.

 

I told that I really wanted to enjoy the time left we have together, hang out, go out, and have fun. I told that my emotions were involved and that I was scared of getting too emotional with him. I also told him that I was confused as to what he was trying to do, from telling me he just wants to be friends, to now he has all these emotions involved, but wants to be lovers.

 

When we woke up this morning, it was great, but then he just starts acting weird and kind of distant. I just don't know how to handle all these mixed emotions. I really do like him, but I really don't know what he is trying to do.

 

Is he really upset all this and really doesn't know how to handle it, so therefore he does distance himself to help him deal with the situation?

 

Or is it that he is being kind of a jerk and feeding me a bunch of BS?

 

Would appreciate anyone's opinion and/or advice on my situation. It has started to stress me out, b/c I can't figure this guy out.

 

Thanks, Suzanne

[scb77]

Could someone please reply with any advice. Thank you.