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sure...i saw a morbidly obese women the other day, she was so big her husband was in orbit around her. :)

 

 

 

eh.... I wonder why I am still single...Maybe I should become obese

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eh.... I wonder why I am still single...Maybe I should become obese

wait until after marriage...

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Maybe I should become obese

It's not that simple. It's a whole new state of being. A completely different mindset. Having said that, it might help if you like cream puffs.

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Sh*t. I was expecting an argument.

 

Well, this subjective thing called love is a holistic assessment, and not a reductionistic one. I understand that you are trying to make a hypothetical point, but I don't think it is valid.

 

What I think you're saying is that love is necessary, but not sufficient. (Notwithstanding, there is a f*ckload of people in this world that would marry for a meal ticket. Survival of the fattest.)

 

Ok, sure. It's a holistic assessment but what I'm saying is that for MOST women that "holistic" assessment isn't predicated on the money factor. The financial issue for most of us IS separate. I can and have loved men who had NO money. My husband was broke when I met him in fact...although to be honest I knew he had potential in that area.

 

But still I HAVE loved men who were poor or had very little.

 

My point IS valid and you didn't really understand what I said. I never said that love is necessary but not sufficient. I never said that. I can love a man, and have as I've stated, who had no money.

 

Was that my ideal? No. I won't lie. I DID state that I wanted it all.

 

As you so eloquently stated, there is a fruckload of people who would marry for a meal ticket. No argument there. But most? I think not. I certainly never would have and I don't think most would.

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We have something in common. No butts about that.

 

 

 

yeah yeah...

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Does this mean I have had the last word... :p

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Does this mean I have had the last word... :p

 

No.:laugh:

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wait until after marriage...

 

 

 

I am not getting Married

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It's not that simple. It's a whole new state of being. A completely different mindset. Having said that, it might help if you like cream puffs.

 

 

 

So I have to become a sumo restler to get a man or be extremely skinny..

 

I hate creme puffs what is a girl to do?

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So I have to become a sumo restler to get a man or be extremely skinny..

 

I hate creme puffs what is a girl to do?

 

Oh come on, P. You know better. I'm sure there are plenty of men who find you attractive exactly as you are. It's so silly to be talking about what men find attractive. Men are all individuals and like different kinds of women. Some men are going to find that we're goddesses and others might not look at us twice.

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Oh come on, P. You know better. I'm sure there are plenty of men who find you attractive exactly as you are. It's so silly to be talking about what men find attractive. Men are all individuals and like different kinds of women. Some men are going to find that we're goddesses and others might not look at us twice.

 

 

Now can I have the last word?

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Now can I have the last word?

 

:laugh: :laugh:

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All the girls i've dated are under 5"4 and 120lbs. Which is odd because i prefer girls with alittle more meat on them. But i don't get involved in relationships based on their body type, so it's just luck

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I usually date fat women for a deep love not the body but most of my friends pass comments every time they ( male, females) see me - why? I am physically attractive and in a good shape - I have no low-self- esteem either. I love dating fat women and I treat them like any other human beings........why???? why??? I treat well slim women, too.

 

Dadaal, your friends pass comments about your larger girlfriends because our society does not value women who are fat as much as it values women who are slim. Since you yourself are in good shape, you aren't dating large women because you can't attract other women - it's your choice because you are attracted to the larger women. Your friends are making fun of your choices - they don't understand why you would choose to date someone who isn't as slim (valuable) as you could attract.

 

It would be the same kind of comments people would make about a handsome man or beautiful woman choosing to date someone who was considered ugly. Or a Rhodes Scholar choosing to date someone who can't spell "scholar" correctly, much less knows what it means.

 

Your friends are thinking you can "do better," so why do you settle for "less" than you can get. Sure, it's shallow of them, but it's not unusual. If I were you, I'd look for a better quality of friends - people who value the person rather than the appearance.

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Or a Rhodes Scholar choosing to date someone who can't spell "scholar" correctly, much less knows what it means.

I can't believe how specialised degrees are becoming these days. Who would have thought you would have to go to college to secure a career in building rhodes? Mind you, there are still too many f*cking holes in all the wrong places, so things aren't really getting any better.

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I can't believe how specialised degrees are becoming these days. Who would have thought you would have to go to college to secure a career in building rhodes? Mind you, there are still too many f*cking holes in all the wrong places, so things aren't really getting any better.

 

They do have new materials that allow them to construct rhodes in winter, though. So maybe they have to get that degree to understand the chemistry.

 

:lmao:

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They do have new materials that allow them to construct rhodes in winter, though. So maybe they have to get that degree to understand the chemistry.

 

:lmao:

 

I only have a Bachelor's degree...no grajewit degree here. What the H are you too talking 'bout? What does chemistry have to do with building rhodes?

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What does chemistry have to do with building rhodes?

Don't you know anything??!! OK, norajane... tell her.

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Don't you know anything??!! OK, norajane... tell her.

 

I NEW I should have went on too grajewat school! I always feel like I'm in the dark when you brainiacs discus anything.

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Don't you know anything??!! OK, norajane... tell her.

 

I think it has something to do with asphalt modified by styrene-butadiene triblock copolymer. I could be making that up, though.

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I think it has something to do with asphalt modified by styrene-butadiene triblock copolymer. I could be making that up, though.

 

You're just saying that to make me feel better. I feel like such a dummy.:(

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You have to have the right density also.

 

When you don't have the right density, that's where those damn craters come from. With the right density it helps to prevent this.

 

There is also different layers in the road and it involves a bunch of crap that I can't remember.

 

And if you need a degree to make those stupid things then I hate to see where their degree came from. Because where I live, the roads suck!

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You have to have the right density also.

 

When you don't have the right density, that's where those damn craters come from. With the right density it helps to prevent this.

 

There is also different layers in the road and it involves a bunch of crap that I can't remember.

 

And if you need a degree to make those stupid things then I hate to see where their degree came from. Because where I live, the roads suck!

 

You must not have a grajewit degree because I understand everything you said.

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You must not have a grajewit degree because I understand everything you said.

I don't go around boasting my knowledge. Lol!

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I don't go around boasting my knowledge. Lol!

 

Yeah, I believe you because I ain't seen no evidence of this here knowledge you talk about.:laugh:

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