Dadaal Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I usually date fat women for a deep love not the body but most of my friends pass comments every time they ( male, females) see me - why? I am physically attractive and in a good shape - I have no low-self- esteem either. I love dating fat women and I treat them like any other human beings........why???? why??? I treat well slim women, too.
AwkwardMan Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Well it's unusual and a lot of people find fat women repulsive period.
Reckless Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 What's fat? 'Fat' by Hollywood's definition fat would be 5"8 and 120 pounds. Fat on the catwalk is 5"10 and over 100 pounds. 'Fat' in the western world is fine figured in Africa. Most women call themselves fat when they are well within a healthy weight range. Most of us find clinically obesse at the very least a bit sad. 'Fat' like you have the waddle-walk, when you cannot get out of a chair without help, in short: "what's eating Gilbert Gripe" fat is neither nice to look at or very healthy. Black women generally (unless they are in that above catagory) carry their fat on their breasts and hips. They can be quite heavy but still have a defined waistline. Some women are, what I call 'heavy'; large women who are often relatively fit and strong. These 'fat' women can be quite attractive. Even at her fattest, Oprah didn't make you want to turn away in horror. So you may be attracted to women that have a few extra pounds... or to full figured women... or large but shapely women... or obesse women that find it difficult to walk .... the bottom line is ... SO WHAT?! It would be nice to live in a world where you didn't have to point out that 'fat' women are "like any other human beings" and expect some kind of round of appause... but maybe (given MTV, size 0 Gap jeans and Countney Cox Arquette) that's more than I can hope for.
whichwayisup Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Well it's unusual and a lot of people find fat women repulsive period. There's different kinds of fat. Chunky, chubby, obsese, ... My bestfriend is hot as hell, she's abit on the hefty side, but she carries herself well. Her weight suits her, and it's not jiggley kind of fat with rolls. I would hope most would look past the fat, and see more...And not be replused.
yousaveme Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 weight is what your comfortable with. I am 5'7" and weigh 102. as long as your comfortable everything else shouldnt matter
stace79 Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 What kinds of friends do you have if they judge you by the appearance of your girlfriend? The things they should be concerned about are that you are happy, that she is not abusive toward you in any way and that she returns your feelings. If those things are met and you are happy with her, they should be happy for you, no matter what size she is. Maybe you should look into acquiring some better friends, instead of ditching your girl. I would express to them in kind tones that you wish they could be happy for you, but if they have legitimate concerns that your gf is not treating you well, then they should discuss them with you in an open and nonjudgmental way.
CaliGuy Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Fat is whatever you think it is. If you think they are fat, they are. If you think they aren't, to you they aren't. I go less by how much they weigh and more by how proportionate they are. I've dated women that have weighed 155lbs and not once did anyone ever think of them as fat. PS: Muscle weighs more than fat
Lauriebell82 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 i agree with caliguy. its always nice when guys dont care about u having to look skin and bones all the time. i used to be quite overweight and most guys wouldnt even look at me. there is nothing wrong with liking a particular body type. i like really muscular guys and cant stand skinny ones. its all about who ur attracted to. who cares what other poeple say about who u date, they arent dating the girls, u are. and if they arent supporting ur choices based on the fact that ur gfs are "fat" then maybe they arent people u want to hang out with.
Art_Critic Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 theres no challenge with fat girls....they'll date anyone therefore their value is less. The sex advice my Dad gave me when I was a teenager was to date a fat woman.. they will fuqc your socks off he used to say.. He said they are happier to be getting it and appreciate you better That is what he used to say... I don't think that way.. but that was his sex advice to me on heavy women
Porn_Guy Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 The sex advice my Dad gave me when I was a teenager was to date a fat woman.. they will fuqc your socks off he used to say.. He said they are happier to be getting it and appreciate you better yea but are you gonna show up in public with some 250lb heffer? would you take her to your company party or "show her off" to your buddies? I think not!
pricillia Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 The sex advice my Dad gave me when I was a teenager was to date a fat woman.. they will fuqc your socks off he used to say.. He said they are happier to be getting it and appreciate you better That is what he used to say... I don't think that way.. but that was his sex advice to me on fat women Ok guys how fat are we talking here... some women have curves... what do you consider fat? I have curves, and yes I am happy to be intimate, but at the same time, definately not willing to give it up at all. So there are no super model umm... easy women... or skinnier women that will give it all up? What about Paris Hilton.
Lauriebell82 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 wow thats really mean..u have no clue what its like to struggle with weight so do us all a favor and shut up about the fat girl comments
Craig Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 PS: Muscle weighs more than fat Actually 1 lb of fat weighs the same as 1 lb of muscle. 1 lb of fat occupies more space than 1 lb of muscle in your body therefore you can actually gain weight (muscle) but lose inches...
pricillia Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 wow thats really mean..u have no clue what its like to struggle with weight so do us all a favor and shut up about the fat girl comments eh don't take it personally... to some I would be considered fat... not the 250 lb heffer that..uh um PORN GUY aka... seems to mention, I have a shapely cury body and I am pretty proportioned. I still turn heads and get compliments all the time
Art_Critic Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 wow thats really mean..u have no clue what its like to struggle with weight so do us all a favor and shut up about the fat girl comments Ahhh.. this is thread about slim vs heavy women.. we are all on topic.
Porn_Guy Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 wow thats really mean..u have no clue what its like to struggle with weight so do us all a favor and shut up about the fat girl comments everyone stuggles with something or another sister....
hardknocks Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm good definition of fat versus slim. ;-) to be scientific about it ;-)
pricillia Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 scientific... but this is about chemistry though if your feelin it your feeling it
Lauriebell82 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 i know what the thread is about..its just the way pornguy said about the 250 lb heffers..that it was a little harsh.
pricillia Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 i know what the thread is about..its just the way pornguy said about the 250 lb heffers..that it was a little harsh. Yeah but remember PG is a real person too and he has is flaws too, so don't let it get to you. There are different degrees of obesity...
freckles73 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 i know what the thread is about..its just the way pornguy said about the 250 lb heffers..that it was a little harsh. And that's why I reported him. There is no excuse for hurling names and insults that may upset someone that reads this thread. I have been super skinny and I've been fat, and I would NEVER insult someone for their physical attributes, especially something like weight that so many people struggle with. To do so is shallow, rude and a reflection of poor character.
Porn_Guy Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 And that's why I reported him. . i believe its against LS rules to say you reported someone
johan Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 i believe its against LS rules to say you reported someone Yeah. I reported her for it, too.
Touche Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Yeah. I reported her for it, too. And I'm reporting you for talking about reporting someone who posted about reporting someone else.
Storyrider Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 And I'm reporting you for talking about reporting someone who posted about reporting someone else. I'm a little worried we're about to be introduced to a new poster named horny_dude.
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