Guest Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I met my partner one month before he left his wife. We were very attracted but nothing happened until after he moved out. I will be honest, I wanted to sleep with him long before I did, and if he hadnt left, I may well have become the OW.... 3 years on... we are still together but an ex OW of his (he had a long term affair with her when married) has recently contacted him again. Texts, phone calls. I know about them. He told me. It is not a big deal, he says. She is going through a hard time. She just needs someone to talk to. I am VERY worried. Because of their history, because he is capable of cheating, and I dont trust her. I have spoken to her briefly and she was not happy that his marriage ended andidnt call her (they were in a period of nc) but started dating me. She did say she just wants to be friends - with him, not me. Yeah, right!!! Advice please! x
Guest Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 I met my partner one month before he left his wife. We were very attracted but nothing happened until after he moved out. I will be honest, I wanted to sleep with him long before I did, and if he hadnt left, I may well have become the OW.... 3 years on... we are still together but an ex OW of his (he had a long term affair with her when married) has recently contacted him again. Texts, phone calls. I know about them. He told me. It is not a big deal, he says. She is going through a hard time. She just needs someone to talk to. I am VERY worried. Because of their history, because he is capable of cheating, and I dont trust her. I have spoken to her briefly and she was not happy that his marriage ended andidnt call her (they were in a period of nc) but started dating me. She did say she just wants to be friends - with him, not me. Invite her to dinner. Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer. She has unfinished business with him and you are in her way! I wonder why other OWs have not given advice?
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