sleepycow Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Hi... I really hope someone could help me. I dunno wat to do rite now. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. We love each other so much! But... We're from different religion. Im a Muslim and he's a Christian. It doesnt bother us at all... Only our parents... My parents still have no idea that im seeing a Christian guy. Only my brother knows. He's ok with it. But recently, My boyfriend's dad saw us together. He got very angry. He confiscated my boyfriend's hp and use it to SMS me, asking me to stay away from his son. He'll do anything so we wont see each other anymore. He will send him to school and even pick him up after tat. Not only tat... He even changed my boyfriend's emails password so tat he cant log in without his dad's presence. He told my boyfriend tat im no good for him and i've changed him. He gonna send him overseas to study so tat my boyfriend cant contact me. My boyfriend didnt go against his dad cos he still depends on him for money to take his degree... But my boyfriend did told me tat he wont leave me no matter wat... Even if he's goin overseas to study. He wanna get a good job so he can support me. Sounds very drama rite? Sigh... Ya... tats wat he said. But it wont be easy... Its gonna be very difficult n long.... Right now... I got no way to contact my boyfriend... I cant call or SMS him. But he got another email account which his dad doesnt know. He use tat to email me wen he's in school. So i gotta wait for him online every night (midnight). Thats da only time he can quietly use da computer to chat with me... But how long r we gonna do tat? Last night, i waited 4 hrs for him... But he didnt come online... I dunno wat happen to him.. Please... Someone please help me... I dun wanna lose him...
Guest Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 how unusual?I actually thought it to be against the Muslim law to be female and with a Christian man? How complicated,I think maybe you should have in the beginning let your families know rather then leave it for three years.how old are you both?If you love each other that much then maybe you should get out on your own and hope the families come around some day but you do have to live your own lives too. I dated a Muslim man and found the cultural/religious difference to be too hard at times so I give you full credit for making yours work and seeing that love has no boundaries. Best of luck!
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