nosex4me Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I dont understand it, My wife will complain about everything I do then turn around and do it herself. Like Myspace, I cant have an account but she feels she can have one because she is not trying to hook up. She doesnt want me to have any female friends, but she constantly says oh I grew up up with him he just a cool person. We dont have sex, and she wont even kiss me. I cheated three years ago and she uses that to justify her actions of today. What the hell????
Ladyjane14 Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 I dont understand it, My wife will complain about everything I do then turn around and do it herself. Like Myspace, I cant have an account but she feels she can have one because she is not trying to hook up. She doesnt want me to have any female friends, but she constantly says oh I grew up up with him he just a cool person. We dont have sex, and she wont even kiss me. I cheated three years ago and she uses that to justify her actions of today. What the hell???? Well, if she still feels like YOU are "trying to hook up"... maybe you haven't dealt appropriately with the infidelity of three years ago. (????) Sounds like she's still got trust issues with you. If there's not enough emotional intimacy, you're likely to see a dearth of physical intimacy.
PandorasBox Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Sounds like she is punishing you in away for what happened before. Which means, what happened was not truly delt with or at least not for her. If you all haven't been to marriage cousneling I think thats something that needs to be done. And even if you all have been before, might be time to go back.
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