lilmems81 Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 hey guys, i recently posted a thread of "was this making the right move". thanks for ur guys advice. its always helpful. to make a long story short this girl i dated for about 2 months, i finally make the moves on her and decides that " we need to get to know each other, all i see for now is just friends". i didnt understand ne thing, i pretty much put it on the table on how i felt and thats how she responded. so i was pretty much out and i was like ok whatever. she didnt want ne thing to change and wanted to hang out, as friends im assuming. of course i wanted more than just friends. so i went with the flow yeaa wut ever. i pretty much backed off from her and the next day she calls me and left me a message sayin hi and how i was doing. she keeps emailing me twice a day, and of course i lagg to respond. obviously why is she doing this? i got other plans on going out and she keeps callin me and leaving me emails, why does she even care. she pretty much lead me on and now she keeps tryin to contact me. i really dont mind at all but its way off dont u think? ohh check this out, she wants to hang out again soon. the flirting was still going on. i would appreciate the advice.
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 You are the 'back burner' guy, until she finds the guy she really wants to date. You pay attention to her, you flirt with her, you stroke her ego, you make her feel beautiful and sexy - and hey, how convenient - she doesn't even have to date you in order to get that stuff! Isn't that funny? Um. No. Its not. Unless you want to continue being used in this way, you'll tell the girl that "friends" isn't cutting it for you, and cut all ties with her.
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