Guest Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Exactly how bad are they? I've never been to a male strip club but some people (mostly girls) on this website make it seem like it's this arousing, sexual experience which should be a relationship no-no. Female strip clubs are pretty much jokes IMO, the guy dancers are just really there to entertain and help the girls have a few laughs. Girls don't get turned on by that stuff- its just funny. Guys will play it off like guy strip clubs (NOT the illegal ones which get shut down- the legit ones) are basically the same thing, just guys having laughs while some girl shakes her boobs and butt around? What's right?
taiko Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 It depends upon the political and law enforcement jurisdiction and presence. It can range from the girls having to stay a certain distance away without any contact or the direct passing of money to other clubs where if a dancer enters a so-called VIP room she is expected to atleast masterbate her customer but more likely provide a higher level of service. There is a defined subcultural with its own message boards and slang there is a good chance that you can search and find an open site where your local club and its dancers are reviewed. Most reviewers will be concerned with the nasty factor. How much contact is allowed during lap dances. How long are the songs. 2 minutes, 2 minutes 20 seconds etc. If the dancers are actively prostituting themselves you generally won't find that on an open board. Closed boards generally only invite in people who have posted on their near sex experiences at the clubs.
cutegirl Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Ummm, I'm not a guy, but I can still give u some advice. Look in google for "Usasexguide" go to your state and city, each one will have a sub forum for "strip clubs" (among other interesting subjects). And as a tip YMMV means "your mileage may vary". Some dancers will grind a guy to ejaculation, it depends on the dancer though. And this happens in all clubs, not just trashy ones. It depends on the dancer.
taiko Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Ummm, I'm not a guy, but I can still give u some advice. Look in google for "Usasexguide" go to your state and city, each one will have a sub forum for "strip clubs" (among other interesting subjects). And as a tip YMMV means "your mileage may vary". Some dancers will grind a guy to ejaculation, it depends on the dancer though. And this happens in all clubs, not just trashy ones. It depends on the dancer. It won't be all clubs, it depends upon how local law enforcement, LE in the online strip club world, enforces vice in the area. All clubs do not allow contact lap dances. The usasexguide is more of a general "perv" board who's target audience is men seeking full time, full service prostitutes there are more specialized boards targeting an audience of "PLs". PL being a hard core strip club goer that focus on that scene and not just prostitution.
cutegirl Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 It won't be all clubs, it depends upon how local law enforcement, LE in the online strip club world, enforces vice in the area. All clubs do not allow contact lap dances. The usasexguide is more of a general "perv" board who's target audience is men seeking full time, full service prostitutes there are more specialized boards targeting an audience of "PLs". PL being a hard core strip club goer that focus on that scene and not just prostitution. Yea, I know of those, Stripperweb and Stripclubjunkie are among those. I have probably wasted over 500 hrs of my life researching everything there is to know about strip clubs because I had an ex that used to go to them. We broke up over that. I still enjoy reading the stripper forums. Their great fun. Z bone is also a good resource. Even if law enforcement is strict or if the club doesn't allow contact there will ALWAYS be girls who give extras or get around it somewhere, perhaps in vip or through some dark corner in the club. When there is a will there is always a way. Even in counties/states where they don't allow contact within 6 inches or whatever, a lot of the dancers will ignore it.
monkey00 Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Guys will play it off like guy strip clubs (NOT the illegal ones which get shut down- the legit ones) are basically the same thing, just guys having laughs while some girl shakes her boobs and butt around? What's right? It really depends on the club itself and the situation. Some guys go there for a drink or two for socializing purposes with the entertainment. And some go there to enjoy the erotic benefits of it. As for lapdances, there are certain clubs that allow touching/groping and there are some that are strictly "no touch but see only".
HennyPenny Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Men love to play down the strip club experience. Oh yeah - all about fun! Contact rules! Ayup.
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