polywog Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Just reread the posts, JM, and yours was not even the post I was referring to... it was another. Anyhow, still sorry that you took offense. I did not mean to be James_M-ophobic.
lonelybird Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Polywog I guess you are refering me? I am sorry if I sounded arrogant. but I didn't mean to condemn anybody. did you read carefully? I meant evil spirit (invisible) NOT PEOPLE wanted to rob joy from people. I have empathy for those people you mentioned in your previous post. I said before that they are victims (victim of Satan-invisible) in a way. when people full of hatred (obivously they were treated badly themselves), then they don't know what love is, then they act out hatred to other people. As for gay people, yes, I don't agree with what they do, does not mean I hate them or fear anything. they made mistakes, yes, we ALL did. you think I hate them, why? they did not hurt me. on the contrary I want them have a joyful life. I believe the same Satan want to rob joy from these gay people, and some gay people got healed by pastors. If you think what gay people do would make them happy, and when they get old, no regret left in them, then it would be totally fine with me. why would I bother and take time to condemn other people, what my purpose???? Of course man can love man, and woman can love woman, and everybody love each other, that would be a perfect world I most like to live. but love is different than lust
JamesM Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Well, the one thing I would like to see is a different term. No matter the feeling regarding other people whether they be a different race, gender or orientation, I have yet to meet someone who ias AFRAID of a minority. I have met many who ridicule, disagree with, or hate a minority, but fear...no. Ignorance is not fear, anger is not fear. And a phobia is not a word used for hatred, anger or ignorance. It is used for fear.
My_Other_I Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Hello all members I read many articles on news papers about rape and some of them were horrific. I always ask myself what compels/drives men to rape!! I'd like to find out your personal opinions about the factors that drives men to rape? In my case he said that his ex-gf liked it rough and that he was trying to impress me. Yeah, I was impressed. Impressed that he didn't stop when I told him to, impressed about the bruises afterwards, impressed about how romantic he was. Ugh. I was raped by a guy I was dating. Probably a bit different from being raped by a stranger but it still didn't feel all that good.
lonelybird Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 If a person hurt others, then she/he hurt part of herself/himself. If a person do others good, then do themselves good. Hatred people are not followers of Jesus no matter what they claim to be. So if I act out of any hatred, then God would scold me (or give me a lesson), don't worry:o
Cous Cous With Goose Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Hello all members I read many articles on news papers about rape and some of them were horrific. I always ask myself what compels/drives men to rape!! I'd like to find out your personal opinions about the factors that drives men to rape? They aren't getting any, or they aren't getting the type of sex they want:confused:
Green Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Rape is horrible... Children get raped, women get raped, and yes even grown men get raped its sick, and its horrible. Its scary, its humilating, and depresing. All I can do is state the obviouse because I dont know why it happens, every one involved loses nothing is gained. Asking this is the same as asking why do Murders kill people... Some do it cause they like it
lindya Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 Lastly (I know this is a long post) I am disturbed by the posters who talk about women wearing provocative clothing, etc. I don't think that people who use the "she asked for it - she was dressed like a tart" line of blaming the victim are anything other than misogynistic prudes. People who have a million issues about sex...and desperately want to punish or even destroy any women who don't happen to be weighed down by those same issues. Someone mentioned the programme where rapists met victims and stories were exchanged causing genuine distress on the part of the many rapists - some of whom nonetheless re-offended on being released from prison. I think when a man has that deep-rooted disgust towards women you might be able to challenge it on a very superficial basis - but he's always going to revert to type. Take a poster like Woggle who has devoted massive amounts of time on this board to spreading his obsessive messages of hatred about the opposite sex. Forever throwing out this line that it's time for men to "fight back against women". What's that if not precisely the mindset of those who commit violent offences against women? Lots of people have attempted to very nicely challenge him on it or persuade him towards a more tolerant attitude, but the ending's always the same. "I'll admit some women are okay, but most are &%$£*" Or alpha....talking about "scamming" women, or hitting us when we "get out of line". There's a poster I've sometimes had quite funny banter with - but when I read views like that, I just shut down. How can a person tolerate anyone who hates and despises them for their gender? Can you imagine if someone was on here spreading those hateful messages about anyone of a different race? It wouldn't be tolerated for a minute, but women are expected to be endlessly peacable, tolerant and good humoured in response to the irrational hatred and prejudice of a minority of extremely anti-social posters here.
Porn_Guy Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 women just cannot stand the fact that men will always be physically stronger than them. I mean, its really the only advantage that men have over women. Women hate men so much they even want to take that away also. This female dominated society sickens me to the core. How can a person tolerate anyone who hates and despises them for their gender? beats being hated and despised for the colour of one's skin...
lindya Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 women just cannot stand the fact that men will always be physically stronger than them. I mean, its really the only advantage that men have over women. Women hate men so much they even want to take that away also. This female dominated society sickens me to the core. Society isn't dominated by females, Porn Guy - as you should know, if you take any interest at all in politics and current affairs. Western Society is (for the moment at least) dominated by people who make some effort to be fair and equitable. In a civilised society, rape and other forms of violent assault are not acceptable. If you feel alienated from that civilised approach to gender relations, that is your problem. Plenty of men don't, and it has nothing to do with being "female dominated" - everything to do with being fair-minded and compassionate. beats being hated and despised for the colour of one's skin... No it doesn't. Whether you're being hated for your colour or your gender, you're being attacked for the essence of who you are.
Citizen Erased Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 women just cannot stand the fact that men will always be physically stronger than them. I mean, its really the only advantage that men have over women. Women hate men so much they even want to take that away also. This female dominated society sickens me to the core. Says the 50 year old man who has the logic of a 12 year old boy
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