resi71 Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 i have been her sense break up.that what happend past 2 month.she break up with me before x-mas,feels like she was stressd,first 2 weeks i tryed everything to win her back,she accept x-mas presents,[.i had made 12x18 inch pick about us what i left behind her door(makes a lot of pain to look that,so i give it away),after that i call her form appartment door to get my stuff back,she sayd no,went home deleted her in messenger,half hour later invited her back,declined.I think she saw the pick next morning.]next day i try to invited her back to messanger and i got her back to messanger.so far no contact with me.i do not know what to think about that.
IslandGirl73 Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 i am in the same boat as u are....i've been attempting strict nc w/ OM but during the interim of things, he's been initiating contact with me and today when i return the gesture, he turn freezing cold on me. i'm at a lost of what to make of it all. all i can say to u at this point is as much as its so damn hard to do so, u have to go INCOGNITO for a good long while to get her to notice u again, if she ever will. from a female's perspective, don't make it too easy for her, even though u want her, don't make it known, by actions or words. cuz if u do, her interest in you will wane even faster. i've been trying my best at work to pretend its no big deal whether or not me and OM even speak and its so damn hard to play that charade but its gotta be done so this will give them a chance to figure out what they want...good luck.
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