pricillia Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Too all of the OW out there who live "full lives" that is great, but it must bother you a little bit that he has another person in his life... for everyone involved... Gosh I think I need a good old fashion punch in the face!
GreenEyedLady Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Too all of the OW out there who live "full lives" that is great, but it must bother you a little bit that he has another person in his life... for everyone involved.../quote] I think that the point here is that everyone is more than the relationship that they are in...we have children, a career, friends, hobbies...just like those who are married...
pricillia Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Too all of the OW out there who live "full lives" that is great, but it must bother you a little bit that he has another person in his life... for everyone involved.../quote] I think that the point here is that everyone is more than the relationship that they are in...we have children, a career, friends, hobbies...just like those who are married... yeah I guess
GreenEyedLady Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I have a question for the OW out there. i am curious of the routine of a OW. I don't think that you are really curious about the routine of the OW, more that you are out to hurt people because you are hurt and see them as the reason for that hurt... You will get alot further here if you ask your questions without the obvious hatred in your words...
lovernotafighter Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Originally Posted by PollyPocket Did you say horse blinders? I say whore blinders. Again, not to anyone specific. Just venting. I love gems like this..." oh no offense everyone..I am just busy crying in my beer" what ever helps you sleep at night PeePee
lovernotafighter Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Home with the kiddies opps almost forgot CA...The North American Man/Boy Love Association (NAMBLA) is looking for you
frannie Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I have a question for the OW out there. What do you entertain yourself with when your sweetie is home with his family? I wonder that sometimes. When he was here and had family over and events. What was the little woman doing? Well, when he was out doing ERRANDS. I take care of the kids. The house . Make dinner. Talk to family and friends. Here is another question. So what happens do you wait and then he comes over and you have mad passionate love. And then gets dressed , kisses you and says see you next time? Does he use the bathroom, the kitchen . Does he leave a dirty mess for you to clean up? Really i am curious of the routine of a OW. When he's not here I get on with the rest of my life. Working, walks, photography, music practice, shopping, reading, housework, spending time with my housemate and friends; things that any single person is free to do with their life. I hear from him every day he's not here. If he's working close to home he calls me on his way to work, at lunchtime, and on his way home. He texts and emails during the day. We have long, rambling conversations about anything and everything, about my projects and his work, about his kids and things we've read about, just like any other two people in love. When he's here he's usually here for a few days at a time. He works here on my dining table alongside me, we go out for walks, to a restaurant, look round the garden, go for days out, or shop and cook and do the dishes together. We watch a film or talk, read our books in bed together, and generally have loving, close times. He doesn't fix the house or anything of that nature because I share it with someone else and that's his job! On the days when he's here he calls home for ten minutes in the evening and says goodnight to his kids. On the nights when he's here I don't know what she does, and like you I think about that from time to time. On the nights when he's there I don't worry too much about what they're doing, because I know pretty much they lead separate lives. I do wish things were different, and maybe they will be one day. But I love the time we get together, and I love having him in my life. I try not to get too twisted up about the circumstances. If I had the chance to exchange my life for hers, without his love but with his physical presence at weekends..? No, I wouldn't exchange it for anything.
MustBeLove Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I have the same kind of thing with my MM as SW. I'm with him at least 5 nights a week. I see him every single day. I talk to him at least once every couple of hours. We cook, go out and eat together, clean, go to shows, events, we work together.... All of the things that everyone else in a normal R does. When he is home it is to be with his child. He will bring his child back down to here ( he lives about 120min away) we go out and spend lots of time together.
Romeo Must Die Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Come on MustBeLove. We want the dirt! Dish it out to us!!! ~ Enquiring minds wanna know ~
herenow Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Come on MustBeLove. We want the dirt! Dish it out to us!!! ~ Enquiring minds wanna know ~ Where for art thou Romeo? You have changed since last I have loggethed in. Why doth you speak with such humor? Who taketh my Romeo and turn her into a comic among us?
RealityCheck Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I have a question for the OW out there. What do you entertain yourself with when your sweetie is home with his family? I wonder that sometimes. When he was here and had family over and events. What was the little woman doing? Well, when he was out doing ERRANDS. I take care of the kids. The house . Make dinner. Talk to family and friends. Here is another question. So what happens do you wait and then he comes over and you have mad passionate love. And then gets dressed , kisses you and says see you next time? Does he use the bathroom, the kitchen . Does he leave a dirty mess for you to clean up? Really i am curious of the routine of a OW. FIX YOURSELF WOMAN!!! It would be a frosty friday before I was ever sub-serviant to my H or any man for that matter! Its obvious there is an "enabling" effect to your reality!
Romeo Must Die Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Home cooked meals. Could you please post the recipe? lol hahaha sh*it. now thats funny.
bonehead Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 I have a question for the OW out there. What do you entertain yourself with when your sweetie is home with his family? I wonder that sometimes. When he was here and had family over and events. What was the little woman doing? Well, when he was out doing ERRANDS. I take care of the kids. The house . Make dinner. Talk to family and friends. Here is another question. So what happens do you wait and then he comes over and you have mad passionate love. And then gets dressed , kisses you and says see you next time? Does he use the bathroom, the kitchen . Does he leave a dirty mess for you to clean up? Really i am curious of the routine of a OW. Router goes down for a week and end up missing alot. What do I do while she is home with the kiddies? Talk to her on the phone alot. Make plans for her to move in, go hunting with HER dad. And this was things that I did BEFORE she seperated from her husband. Other then that I was the best friend I could be to her. I supported her through some very rough emotional times when her husband didnt give a rats arse. Im the one who went out in a snowstorm to get her and her kids when her car broke down because he was to busy lifting his weights.
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