Guest Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Am I mad? My boyfriend has slept with a large number of girls before me. Some in realitonships, some one night stands or short flings. He has photos on his computer of him in bed (post sex type pictures) with a lot of these. I was deeply hurt when I first saw these, and have been cut up about it ever since (the girls are generally v attractive) and my self confidence has shot downwards, and I've been thinking obsessively about the pictures and his experiences with these girls. I plucked up the courage to discuss this with him, (confessed all, my thoughts, me looking at the pictures over and over) and he just got angry with me. I want him to delete some of the photos. I can understand him keeping ones of long term gfs, or even just ones of these one night stands when they have been out somewhere, but does he really need to keep the images of him in bed with each of them? Deeply hurt, confused.. Am I being ridiculous? x PLease help
Guest Posted April 7, 2007 Posted April 7, 2007 Sounds like he's a lot more into himself and his trophees than into you. You deserve better than that. Read Dr. Phil's Love Smart Book and find yourself a quality man if you want something longterm. Am I mad? My boyfriend has slept with a large number of girls before me. Some in realatonships, some one night stands or short flings. He has photos on his computer of him in bed (post sex type pictures) with a lot of these. I was deeply hurt when I first saw these, and have been cut up about it ever since (the girls are generally v attractive) and my self confidence has shot downwards, and I've been thinking obsessively about the pictures and his experiences with these girls. I plucked up the courage to discuss this with him, (confessed all, my thoughts, me looking at the pictures over and over) and he just got angry with me. I want him to delete some of the photos. I can understand him keeping ones of long term gfs, or even just ones of these one night stands when they have been out somewhere, but does he really need to keep the images of him in bed with each of them? Deeply hurt, confused.. Am I being ridiculous? x PLease help
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