IrishGurl Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 I am new here...so hello to all. Very recently I met a man on line. He initiated contact with me and we agreed to meet for the first time last Sunday. Things went well, he seemed like a nice guy and he said he would like to see me again this weekend. Last night he sent me an e-mail that, quite frankly, sent me for a loop. In the e-mail he asked me to describe one of my fantasies for him...in explicit detail. My first thought is that he is hoping that I respond with some hot/heavy sexual fantasy I have had although he will be sadly mistaken because I just am not much for fantasizing. Interestingly, on the first date, he did tell me that he was trying to figure out if I was more "artsy" or "analytical" and the only reason I mention that here is that I'm wondering if his request for this fantasy in detail may be some sort of test of his to see where I fall on his artsy/analytical scale. Would love to know what others think of this odd request.
Mary3 Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 The guy is like most Pervs on the on-line dating scene. He wants to masterbate to your descriptions of sexual fantasies. ....
D-Lish Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Trust me, it's not a test of your wit or cognition. He's a perv.
Art_Critic Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 The guy is like most Pervs on the on-line dating scene. He wants to masterbate to your descriptions of sexual fantasies. .... I agree... You should email him back and tell him your fantasy is to have a date with someone who isn't a pervert.. There is nothing wrong with sexy hot fantasy emails but those are for people that you know intimately and are in a relationship with.. not for someone who you don't really know yet
polywog Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Yes, Yuck... creepy perv. And the "are you artsy or analytical" thing made me want to barf.
TheDC Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 He wants to know if you are "artsy or analytical" probably because he has it in his mind that "artsy" women are more sexually permissive and experimental, whereas 'analytical" women aren't. Tell him you're analytical and I guarantee that it's the last you'll hear from him.
Mary3 Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 The only thing he wants to * test * is your limits .
D-Lish Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 The online dating scene is a freakin' crazy place... I've met some good guys- and I've met some real crazy guys! BTW: I was exchanging cool conversations with a guy I thought had some potential... then he asked me to mail him my undies... Yeowsers! So- be careful out there! D
Mary3 Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 The online dating scene is a freakin' crazy place... I've met some good guys- and I've met some real crazy guys! BTW: I was exchanging cool conversations with a guy I thought had some potential... then he asked me to mail him my undies... Yeowsers! So- be careful out there! D Yup I had that request too but he specifically wanted unwashed ones , lol ! ewwwwwww perv-ness....
IWalkAlone Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Respond by describing a non-sexual fantasy in explicit detail - maybe about winning the lottery and buying a farm to train seeing-eye dogs or something. That will be YOUR test to see is he's really into you, or just what sexual thrills he might get from you.
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