Stevearino Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 I am looking for some insight to this behavior my wife is exhibiting towards me. Originally she approached me with the "She loves me but doesn't love me anymore" statement about our marriage and is looking to divorce me like yesterday! One thing I have noticed is she has turned a complete 360 on me a side I never seen of her. For instance: If changing her clothes she turns her back to me. Doesn't want kisses hello or goodbye anymore. Can't look me in the eyes when talking to me. Doesn't want to share her thoughts with me. Comes off with a very cold atititude towards me. Sex was turned off like a water faucet and locked with the key thrown away never for me to tread there again. She tells me she wants me to find someone else to make me happy. I have been faithful to her, a good provider, work very hard to support the family. I am proud of what I have and accomplished and I am willing to work at correcting the problems in our marriage. She is not. This is not the lady I met 17 years ago and maaried 8 years ago. Just last year on our wedding anniversary she wrote in the card how happy she was with me and rmebers our wedding day like it was yesterday. Here I am less than a year later fighting to hold on to my marriage. Any thoughts, Steve
Woggle Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 A typical case of a woman being a woman. I don't even know why men are surprised anymore when women do this. Just let her go and move on.
norajane Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 My first thought is she has found someone else to have sex with.
Author Stevearino Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 well the only person she has gotten real close with is a lady here in town. I have my suspicions! I had a talk with this lady friend because if she was brought into the discussions my wife and I had over our marriage my wife would immediately blurt out the Divorce word. Sort of my wife protecting this lady. the talk i had with this lady went nowhere basically she was trying to tell me nicely that i would be happier with someone else and that my wife wants to end the marriage. Steve
Gunny376 Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 She's scroggin someone else. Just that plain and simple. And, if you don't get your head and azz together, get your act together ~ she's going to be screwing you ~ except not in the manner you've become accustomed to! When I was going through this crap oh so many years ago, I, too was lost, dazed and confused, running around in circles, screaming and shouting. Today? I'd put Missy to the curb!
surfnbro74 Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Bro I can just put my name on your post and it would be my post too. LOL Man all the signs are there bro shes pursuing someone else or contemplating on it. Honestly and clearly, they are bored of us and the marriage. They want to start fresh again basically someone new, plain and simple. My wife said and ACTED the same way when she said the "not in love" and wants a separation to figure herself out and all the signs you said above is EXACTLY how my wife was. Pretty scary maybe they can be twins or something, anyways its been almost two months now of our separations and we still talk from time to time cuz I have no choice since we have a baby girl (3 yrs old). Come to find out in the end that shes been talking to a co-worker, but Im not surprised cuz my gut feeling already told me that when she wanted this separation. So basically, The separation, confused and I just want some space for myself is just an excuse to pursue someone else. I learned to accept this and Im still having a very hard time with this but Im being a man about it and trying to move on. Good Luck Bro and PLEASE listen to your GUT feeling, dont try to deny it.
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