Guest Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 This is a loooonnggg story, so I pre-apologize. G and I started dating 10 years ago (roughly). Things were ok - we were mostly sleeping together then. Fast forward 2 years...I get pregnant, he is hooked on drugs. He goes to jail and I am with our daughter at home trying to make a life. Fast forward 6 more years...He gets released from jail & comes to live with me. By this point, I have bought a home, have 2 cars but still care enough about him to want him in both of our lives and brought him into our safe environment - yes, I thought I loved him. Probably still do, but my anger about all of this gets so in the way. Two years he lives with me...never pays a dime..NOTHING. We argue definitely b/c i am under so much stress bill wise and he is playing xbox or golf on the weekends. We finally break up in October (we were engaged). He takes everything...including the 50" TV. Hurt and anger don't even begin to describe how i feel. I would love to write him off but my daughter now considers him her father - our state wouldn't stand by that b/c his high butt wouldn't even sign her b/c in the delivery room...but i would be hurting her by not letting her see him...which leashes me to him for the rest of my natural life and all i want is for him to go away...far, far away. This hurts and sucks and i wish i could do n/c but i can't due to my daughter. How, how can i get him out of my life? It's all i want...a little peace....
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