confusedandempty Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Hello everyone, hope you're all doing great. There is this girl there I like. Met her few weeks ago in a bar I go to a lot, where she is a bartender. That particular day she was not working and more importantly not drinking. Just picking up some stuff. We had a nice conversation for few minutes and then she had to leave. I forgot to ask her for her phone number so I just went to the working bartender and asked him if he knew her and if he could get me her phonenumber. Well, he did and I sent her few texts the following days and always got nice and funny answers. Then she added herself to my MSN and we've been having chats there for the past 2 weeks or so. However, I don't wanna spent too much time chatting online with her although I use MSN a lot and she does too. If we discuss everything online - then I don't have anything to discuss when we meet. And that's when I come down to the meeting. We have "a date" tomorrow. It's not a date per se, more like her friends are meeting and she asked me if I wanted to come and bring my friends. That must be a good sign, but I'm not sure how to act tomorrow. How can I take it to the next level, from all the text flirting and MSN flirting to some serious stuff. It is my first "date" since a breakup in October. I've been on a few dates, but not with anyone I've liked particularly so I haven't been enjoying that. I really like this girl and I would really try to take a step forward with this one. I'm a bit nervous. Not like I'm gonna sweat and speak fast nervous, just the night before nervous, because I just don't know how to be. Quite some time since I've been on a date with someone I really like. Can you give me any advices - because I really do think I need them ...
JCD Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Be yourself and relax. Let her talk if you must but do ask her questions and be interested in her answers. Just take is slow and there will be many more dates where you can find out more about her. It's not like you need to know everything on your first date. Flirt a bit as well to lighted up the mood. Then let things just happen and most important don't become self aware. What I do is I jump from topic to topic if one gets boring or exhausted.
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