Hope4thebest Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Just wondering if anyone out there can help me out! I am 5.5 months pregnant and my husband no longer has the desire to have sex with me. Could just be that I am pregnant and it freaks him out (which I have asked and he says that having sex is probably not the smartest thing we can do since I am pregnant) but it has been 3 months since we have had sex and we have done nothing since. Granted I am a bit tired but STILL it is very frustrating and just makes me 'wonder'. Just want some opinions so please, fire away........
jl5099 Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Maybe I am late in responding, but I sorta had the same problem when I was pregnant with my kids. My husband, however didn't stop wanting to have sex he just slowed waaaaay down. He told me and other people on several occasions that he didn't find pregnant women attractive at all. Bottom line for him, he still wanted sex, so he grinned and bared it, so to speak. So my situation is a little different but just wanted to let you know, maybe the situation is just temporary. Maybe he is just really uncomfortable with your body at this time. I am not saying this is okay, but just some insight. Good luck!!
JackJack Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Do you think he feels that since you are further along now and maybe showing some he feels sex will harm the baby or something will go wrong? If he needs to be reassured things would be ok to have sex while you are pregnant, then maybe get our doctor to talk with him.
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