freakygal78 Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 It wasn't until posting the lyrics to a song exMM sent me on the Favourite Songs thread this morning that I realised just how mad it made me that I sent him a 'closure' email after bumping into him in the street and I get this stoic, matter of fact email back from him. Sure I wasn't expecting wine and roses nor did I want to open up the whole sad sorry can of worms again. I guess I just couldn't understand how someone who sent me such romantic music once could be so po-faced about it all in retrospect. The sender of such impassioned music now imparting life wisdom to me and recommending travel!!! WTF? I wish he would have owned or acknowledge his actions at least so that I don't feel quite so much a lunatic who imagined the whole thing happening. Anyways short of writing him an impassioned and angry email what can I do to deal with this horrible feeling? I just feel like crawling in a hole and hiding away from the world. I still have a lot of healing to do from all of this. I just hate the fact that this is not how I imagined having to live my life (even short term). It's not happy and when it seems that it is, I'm just afraid I'm living denial of being miserable deep down inside. I want to live again! Oh, and if I ever happen to see him in the street again, I want the punch the arrogant so-and-so on the nose - let him explain that to wifey
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 LOL! "Honestly Darling, I was mugged!" How smug of him to impart his wisdom onto you, although the travel might be a good thing i.e. as far away from his as possible. I'm sorry freakygal, it must have been very difficult to bump into him and hard not to just scream "Where's your emotion gone??" Don't even warrant him with as much as an impassioned e-mail. The best kick in the n*ts you can give him is going on to have a happy life full of adventure and love. No contact sounds like an idea...
Romeo Must Die Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 NC = No New Hurts I know how bad you are feeling because there was a few times I had to do NC (BW call it the 180) to protect my own interests. Theres no such word as closure. Closure is a stupid made-up word, as you have just found out. The best cutting jab you can throw at him is the next time he sees you is you looking good, babe. Let him see you looking your best and perhaps on the arm of a new fella. Wink. Throw out the copies of that song. Get rid of the reminders, they'll only just eat you up inside.
puddleofmud Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 The fact that he responded stoically and non-impassioned let's you know that you made the right decision, baby!!! ooooh! how I hate it when a man does that! Where do they get off???? Ok, done with the rant...sorry... Remember! Happiness is the best revenge...indifference is the best motive and irreverance is the most fun!!! Snark!
Romeo Must Die Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Actually revenge is the best revenge. lol well, at least its more fun anyway.
puddleofmud Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 You little stinker you... You'd better get those little biker boots kicking, girl! My Dingo boots will kick any sorry man's beeee-hiiind into the freakin' dirt.
Author freakygal78 Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 So short of breaking in and sewing fish tails into the curtain hems at the marital abode or posting the wife his emails, lol I will take your sage advice ladies (as I have already made steps to) and go out on Saturday night looking faaab-ulous to meet my (very hot I might add) blind date. As scary as it is and as much as I'd rather just stay at home (and lurk on here), it's time I kick myself up the a$$ and stop p*ssing and moaning to my bestie about ##### - it's getting old and I think I'll hotfoot it onto the nearest highway very soon and frisbee 'his' cds right out the window like I heard one of you ladies did a whiles back! lol. I need to be a bit more thelma and louise here and a little less woe is me. I'm touched by your encouragement in my moments of weakness and stupidity - so glad I found this forum!
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