Guest Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 To start off, I'd like to thank everybody who responds to this post and helps me through my situation. Here's my dilemna: I'm crazy in love with my boyfriend of 2 years. He's 30 and I'm 28. He's my first relationship and the first man I've ever slept with. I used to be a larger woman and, before I lost the weight, I purposely avoided men because I was so ashamed of my body. I wasn't a virgin because of beliefs - I just didn't feel very good about myself. My boyfriend on the other hand, has had several partners (not hundreds - but a dozen or so) and was also previously engaged. Now I realize that finding somebody with absolutely no past is difficult - and it wasn't my intention to find somebody like that. I just hate the fact that he's experienced everything before. I can't seem to get over it. I know it sounds ridiculous but he's my life - and I can't bare thinking that he was with other people and was in love with somebody else (they were engaged but broke up after she cheated on him). I feel like he's always comparing me to them ... it's all in my head but I feel like he is. Please - I could use any advice at all to try and get over the fact that my man had a life before me. I keep picturing him with other girls and I often wonder if he thinks of them as often as I think of them. Any help would be appreciated!
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