resi71 Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 why girl like to dump you before holidays?you are looking forvard to romantic holiday and just before that they want break up
Speedo Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 why girl like to dump you before holidays?you are looking forvard to romantic holiday and just before that they want break up I don't think the holiday or even Birthday breakup is exclusive to girls. Alot of guys do it too. But to answer your question, the obvious thing is that she has been wanting out long before the holiday unfortunetly. A holiday is kind of a benchmark where you look at the past and then you are supposed to look forward to a happy future. Some people don't see it that way. I think during the holiday she reflected on the past with you, and didn't see a future with you (at least not right now). So she decided to end it. Whether she found someone else or was just unhappy in the relationship, either way the holiday was the benchmark where she felt she needed to make a decision.
PussInHeels Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 why girl like to dump you before holidays?you are looking forvard to romantic holiday and just before that they want break up Maybe she didn't want to buy a gift. I'm just kidding... Men also dump women before holidays. I'm inclined to think most of the time it has not much to do with the holiday itself; it's coincidently. Or maybe a holiday signifies (as you eluded to) a romantic time together: another milestone to spend together as a couple. If this girl was having doubts about your relationship, she may have been unwilling to go through a romantic time with you. I broke up with a guy before Christmas (horrible I know, yadda yadda), but it had nothing to do with the holidays, and it could have happened at anytime. In fact I was so pissed off at him, I had actually forgotten Christmas was in a few days, and if I had thought about it more, maybe I would have waited. But it would have been pointless because we would have broken up regardless.
DyingHeart Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 My fiance broke up with me before Christmas. And he's a guy, lol. Needless to say, it ended up being the most horrible Christmas ever. And my birthday is 10 days after Christmas. That sucked too. Now Valentine's Day is coming up and I have no clue as to what will happen then, but I know it will probably be depressing too. Ugh, would've been nice if he waited till after the holidays, as he knows how much I enjoy them. I feel ya, I really do. Hang in there, as many other people have said, it does get easier, but it will take some time. Good luck. Hugs, Chrissi
Author resi71 Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 dear Chrissi my girl who was moust amazing girl for me in world, break up with me before x-mas,did not say the reason,was stressd out,then i had a little surgery,then new year,then my b-day and now is valetines day on the way,i love holidays but it is have been worst ever,
Nedved28 Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 My ex and i had a holiday booked to Italy!! i payed for everything and she dumped me not long before we went...its was'nt easy i have to say a i was naturally devasted we broke up and on top of that i lost quite a lot of money due to not being able to get a refund!! Looking back it was prob for the best as we'd have prob argued every day if we had of went
Salicious Crumb Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 why girl like to dump you before holidays?you are looking forvard to romantic holiday and just before that they want break up Because some other guy who only wants in her pants, gets her an expensive, nice early present.
luvtoto Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 why girl like to dump you before holidays? 'cause if I know it ain't working out, I would rather dump before the holidays, so I don't have to go to any of his family shin-digs.
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