Marielle Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Hi all, after more than a week after the breakup, my well known ups and highs...I am starting to feel a lot better. I m starting to feel myself again, making projects, taking back where I was at where it all started (I was in a very good point of my life, after mm, I let everything fall down in my personal projects) Now I m starting to reconstruct everything, and feeling good about it! I ma bit exited because I ve been unmotivated to do ANYTHING that had not to do with MM for 2 yrs, and finally I m starting to enjoy life a bit. I m still sad and wondering if he thinks about me...but it's atarting to fade a bit every day... For those of you OW that r feeling that ur R is going nowhere: it is possible (I thought it would be the end of my world) And those of you OW (Stillhere, Yousaveme, etc ) that have hope, just enjoy what you have and don t mind what ppl say....as long as u are happy. I still need a lot of strenth to gothrough the day, but it's getting better:bunny:
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 That's great Marielle! It's so good you sound excited about things...and on those days when you don't feel so positive, at least you're giving yourself something to focus on with your new projects. Big Hugs & keep positive
freakygal78 Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Hello Marielle, I am about a week and a half past a breakup also but with rebound SG after the exMM....still a bit of fallout there but like you have been trying to keep myself busy with 'things'. It's not easy - kind of feels like walking a tightrope with this great big gaping empty space underneath you rather than a rather damaged safety net which could hurt you but keeps you somewhat reassured. lol. That's how I kind of see it anyways. I have no idea whether to get out there and meet more men or to go and stay weekends with my parents and brood where I am 'safe' at least. Feeling a bit battered emotionally but things will get easier day by day as I'm sure they will for you - hang in there sister!
kymberann Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Hi Marielle, Glad to hear you are on your way to healing. Yes, it does get easier. It gets better and it gets to a point you will think of MM without the hurt. You will also get to a point when you won't be adding up the number of weeks it has been since the break up. I have probably about almost three months of NC with xmm. I've stop counting because the effort isn't worth it anymore. I've stoppped battling with my self what I could have done, or should have done. What's happended, happened. I feel better about it, that's not to say I don't miss the R, I do, but I am at a better place. We all will be because we know what and will be best for each of us at that moment! Proud of you! Best
Author Marielle Posted January 24, 2007 Author Posted January 24, 2007 thanks all for your replies....each of them have calmed me down and remotivated me...one day at a time is my motto. I just come from work and by myself again feling a bit empty... Anyone in the mood to exchange ideas? or at least some jokes?
puddleofmud Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 So glad to hear that you are feeling a little excited about life, again! That's the Spirit of healing working within you...keep up the good work and remember that every precious moment is NEW possibility! Who knows what is around the next corner? I am happy that you are open to the possibilities and even the ~miracles~ life may bring. Sometimes just surviving is a miracle in itself; so give thanks... Hugs to you!
stillhere Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Thanks girlie, didn't realize you involved me in this thread!! Take it one day at a time, that's all you can do. I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better. Sorry i haven't been of much help. Still doing the lurking thing!!! Anyways (((Marielle))), it can only get better!!
freakygal78 Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 I have a joke Marielle! How many OW does it take to change a light bulb? I don't even have an answer...but i'm sure some of you could try coming up with some appropriate punchlines...sorry if this is in bad taste - just trying to boost the thread with some humour as I'm feeling a touch empty atm also....
Author Marielle Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 lol, very funny...but it didnt work, I m really starting to feel blaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I try to think on the bad things (besides the situation) He's horse teeth, hahaha he's hairy back (awwww) The way he sometimes talks with that special nasal sound when he;s bored or kinda blahhhh When we where making love, he would ask me: so did you come? He's f***** character He's music taste (50 cents, ludacris) He's white perfect feet ANd I still miss him like crazy!!!!!! How can I get rid of that feeling??????????????????????????????????????? SOS, help, before I do anything stupid
whichwayisup Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 When we where making love, he would ask me: so did you come? LOL!! Yeh, focus on that...What a dolt.... DO NOT CONTACT HIM. If anything, do a letter then burn it. DO NOT CALL HIM!! NO NO NO NO NO. If you do, you'll regret it! Do you do yoga? If not, get a beginners tape and do yoga every night before you to bed. It will help keep you calmer and relaxed.
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