lookbook Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 I have been seeing a girl for the past 5-6 weeks casually, ie; once a week and sometimes with her friends if she is already out After our first dinner 'date' I asked her out for a second which she agreed to and was excited about, but then on the day, her phone was off and she apologised the next day for being a flake I was seriously turned off, but after a week of texting back and forth, I asked her out again (while also letting her know i wasn't happy) and it was fine. She never explained why she didnt make the date The last few dates have gotten more serious with her coming over to my house last week. We have only kissed,etc so far so is VERY slow compared to most girls I am with, but I really enjoy this ones company (even though she makes out she is a player,etc with men and DOES get a lot of attention) So, again I try to get a second date in the same week last week. The day after she comes over I send her an email and ask her about doing something on the weekend. She hasn't replied by Saturday, so I send her a text message (we always message one another) asking to catch up on Sunday with a specific time. No reply I go out on Saturday with my friends and she shows up at the same nightclub. She sees me talking to some other girl and comes up and says hi, then finds her friends Later she asks me who the girl was, and I eventually ask why she didn't reply to my message. "I was at a wedding", OK, so how about tomorrow, "I will be drunk from tonight", OK..."I do laundry on Sundays" - then I started busting her ass = everything seemed like a lame excuse When we have dinner/drinks she is texting almost as soon as any message comes in, but my message ASKING her on a date is ignored? THe thing is it sounds so simple from the outside, but when we are together it is a lot of fun and she gives off a lot of signals that she is keen. What is going on? I felt like I needed to bust her ass so she knew that I wouldn't take any crap (she asked me to stay with her and her friends even after I did this, but I didn't) I feel like I need to not ask her out again and give her time to ask me? what do you think? She STILL hasn't responded to the email or text message even after the episode at the club.
Poboy Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 is she doesnt respond , dont bother again ... you did your part but she is not so have respect and move on ... if she is interested , she will reply.
gfto Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 I felt like I needed to bust her ass so she knew that I wouldn't take any crap You're already taking her crap. I lost count of all the red flags in your post. This girl is not very interested in you, and she is very disrespectful. I'd flush her number and move on.
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