NineGirl Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 I don't know what I really should do.. Theres this guy I was talking to for about 4 months...you could say we were kind of together. He seemed really into me, always telling me about how he deeply feels for me bla bla.. Very protective as well. Anyways, it was my friends b-day party one night.. i was at her house, and he knew that. We had plans to meet up after it was over. For some reason he hadn't called me that whole day at all.. and he is one to call me all the time; 5 times a day! I called his cell throughout the party, but he didnt pick up.."supposedly he left it at home"..anyways i get a call from him around midnight, thinking he was calling to meet up and explain y he hadnt called.BUT he calls me saying hey babe whats up bla bla.. before i couldve really said anything.. some girl in the backround loudly says "Get of the phone Tony..bla bla... At this point im confused and kind of shocked... in a joking way i told him "come on loser.. dont call me while theres girls w/ u" i really didnt think anything of it...THEN this girl has the adacity to start cussing and yelling at me... i get pissed and start cussing back at her and HIM.. he made me look stupid as to what he did that night! I expected him to call me later that night or even the next day, but he didnt!!! SO i said F him, i will never forgive or talk to him again ( i am one to hold grudges) A week later he calls me 2 times.. i dont pik up he called with diff numbers and wen i pik up.. he puts on this sad act begging me to talk to him, and that he really needs to talk to me but i just hang up!..I just ignore his calls... SHould i just let him feel empty and not give him the satisfaction of talking to me again?
Author NineGirl Posted January 23, 2007 Author Posted January 23, 2007 :sick: :sick: :o :o :o :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
brokenhart2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 I've been there; forget him while you can, cuz even if you two make up, there will probably be another similar incident eventually. I guess it wouldn't hurt to hear how he explains himself, that might determine if he's worth a second chance or not...but then you are risking him doing something like that to hurt you again, then you'll REALLY be p****d off. I dated a guy for several months that seemed great at first but then he started breaking all of his promises about hanging out with me. It became pretty hurtful after a while.
Author NineGirl Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 ya..whats ganna kill him even more is if i just fully ignore him... guys that mess up once are always bound to do it agaiN! So i think i am pretty much done with him!
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