BlueEyedSarah Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 I have known this guy just over a year, he 'dumped' me. Basically saying its not working out between us ect but still wants to be in contact with me on MSN. Its been about 2 days and he has not made the effort to talk to me (he might be still hurt). It hurts me quite a lot to see him online on my MSN. Makes me cry sometimes. Should I cut contact with him? (Example, block & delete him from my MSN. I have deleted he's phone number, got rid of pictures of us together ect). He is showing he is not intrested in still being friends (well of course not if he said the friendship isnt working out).
JackJack Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 Did he give you reason(s) as to why he dumped you, other than its not working out? You all were just friends right? So you are meaning he dumped you as his friend? Probably one thing that hurts you too, is the fact that maybe you don't know exactly why it was he dumped you? I would want an explanation if I were in your shoes. You could ask for one, and he could either tell you or not. If not, move on. Maybe he really wasn't your friend after all if he can't at least give you some kind of answer as to why he dumped you. And even if he does give you one, if he still doesn't want to be friends, theres not alot you can do. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want to be with you.
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 Did he give you reason(s) as to why he dumped you, other than its not working out? He didn't give me one reason. He doesnt feel the same way he felt for me before, said he is not ready for the friendship with me. He is in a strict relegion up bringing all he's life and I don't think he's parents were ever happy that me and him hung out alot. I am unable to get more reasons from him as he will not talk to me at all. He will not phone, email or reply to my texts. He lives about an hour away by car but he probably wont be at home, or he's parents will be home and tell me to go away, or he just wont answer the door. You all were just friends right? So you are meaning he dumped you as his friend? We were close friends. He was like a best friend to me. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want to be with you. This really helps, thanks for your advice I am no longer in contact with him and he is not contacting me, so I just need to move on from this upwards slope.
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