princesspeaches Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 My ex and I have many years invested in eachother, almost a decade - but we haven't been together the whole time - that's a whole different issue and our breakups were always hard but after the first couple it wasn't a big deal because I knew we'd get back together. Well almost four years ago he asked me to marry him for the first time, I said yes and then the so much happened and we took time from eachother. We still remained close, very close and after a few months we got back together He kept asking, and he kept making me regret it (cheating). Ultimately about two years ago I finally had enough and started dating elsewhere. I'm not going to lie, he's still very much in my heart and we are still very close we have so much history, its hard to ignore you know? When my two post him relationships didn't work out as I'd hoped, he was there trying to pick up the pieces and move back into my life, but I put my foot down and stopped it. Now the weird question : I've been single for a while - I'm taking a break from dating and focusing on me - Sometimes I see the engagement ring in my jewelry box and get all gushy, and I wear it. Usually just a little while to admire how perfect it fits my hand (and usually when I really miss him). I have occasionally worn it out in public when I don't want to get hit on, sometimes guys are really rude about it. I've just recently made him stop calling and visiting me for weekends to a few months ago. So is it weird that I do that with his engagement ring every once in a while? I've never ever ever done that when I was dating a different guy, ever. It makes me feel close to him, like I'm not alone. And it brings back good memories. He also would not take the ring back, he said he bough it for me and the thought of selling it and having another woman wear my ring didn't sit well with him. I'm sorry if I rambled on. Thanks in advance.
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