Kate Posted November 17, 1999 Posted November 17, 1999 I am very much in love with this beautiful man but the thing is he had a tremendous fear of being loved and of loving. We both have been so very hurt in the past but he allows the past to rule him, I am moving forward and healing but he is way behind me and everytime I write to him and when I am correct with anything about how he is feeling he gets nasty and extremely defensive. He lashes out at me alot but that is ok cause it is a FEELING you know? Any way I want him back cause you see I let him go so that he could find himself and heal. I have come to realize that being without him is NOT what I want and that I truly love this man. I know he is in love with me but due to the past once again he won't admit it and is running from it and me. I need help with this cause I am at a total loss here. I do know that I have to make baby steps with him and learn patience and moderation, that I do know. But if there is a Physcologist or someone that knows what they are talking about I would really appreciate your help and/or input. Thank you. I can be reached at <e-mail address removed> Respectfully, Kate
Lianne Posted November 18, 1999 Posted November 18, 1999 He has PROBLEMS. Anyway, if you want him then tell him that he needs to work through his own demons and let HIM come back to YOU
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