Author JackBlack Posted January 30, 2007 Author Posted January 30, 2007 How does one go about using V-Day to their advantage with someone they're interested in yet hardly know?
tanbark813 Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 How does one go about using V-Day to their advantage with someone they're interested in yet hardly know? They don't. V Day is only useful when you've already been seeing someone for at least a little bit. Trying to plan something for V Day with someone you haven't been out with yet comes across as contrived at best, creepy at worst.
parTgirl Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 They don't. V Day is only useful when you've already been seeing someone for at least a little bit. Trying to plan something for V Day with someone you haven't been out with yet comes across as contrived at best, creepy at worst. No don't plan anything really romantic. That'll just weird her out. Contact her on or around V Day. Start things slowly. Talk to the girl first and build a strong friendship. If she still has any feelings for you then she'd probably more willing to talk to you if it's around V Day, especially if she's single. Every relationship needs a strong foundation or friendship IMO. That makes sense doesn't it?
roxy_1980 Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 I think that you have built this girl up in your head. You remember only the few little moments that she talked to you. You didn't not approach it with any consistancy and neither did she. Unless there is something that you've left out, nothing seems to be coming from this. This girl has moved away and moved on, if she was ever interested in the first place. You need to do the same.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 This girl has moved away and moved on, if she was ever interested in the first place. You need to do the same. Amen!! DO NOT CONTACT HER FOR V-DAY. Creepy.
parTgirl Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Personally, I don't think it's creep if JB just emailed/text/messaged the girl or whatever to say hello and try to start up a friendship. There are lots of people who have friends in different cities. It doesn't have to be on V Day, but that wouldn't be that bad anyway. However, OP do whatever you feel best and what you're comfortable with. By the way OP how long has it been since she left and how far away did she move? Is it halfway around the country or is it close enough that a relationship, if and whenever that happened, would be possible? These are all things to consider. Just my 2 cents.
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