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Need some help folks;

 

My boyfriend dumped me nearly a year ago, but we remained semi-friends. It has been THE most difficult thing ever. He went back to one of his ex's who after a while didn't want to know and then he ended up single again.

 

I have tried everything, but the more I try the less he does. He said to me that I am the best thing to ever happen to him, I deserve to be happy, I deserve better than him, and I'm not the man for him. He also said those three words... I L*ve you.

 

I know that he doesn't want a second chance, he can't give me "exclusivity", and he can't make me happy. I know this, but don't know what to do next. We get on great when we are together, have such a nice time but he's still hung up on her.

 

I am trying to move on. I initiated N/C which lasted a while, but he got in touch several times saying that he missed me, needed me in his life and his future..... When we met up I told him that I can't be anything to him, neither a friend or in a relationship as we have exhausted all options....

 

What do I do? Remain friends, or once and for all get rid of him forever.....Or wait til I find someone else and phase him out!??

 

Please help!

 

Thanks

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