AwkwardMan Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 The last weekend before winter break, I was drinking at a friend's apartment and started talking to this girl who seemed nice. I didn't know this at the time, but she's my female friend's (we're juniors and 20) little sister's (they're freshmen and 18 and 19 respectively) suitemate/close friend. So we move to some other party and we split paths. So I'm bored and evidently quite drunk, so I Facebook her and she gives me her AIM screenname and we talk a bit. We continue to talk, and she's initiating conversations for the next month or so while we're both at our respective hometowns far away from eachother. When I get back to school, I'm hanging out with my female friend and we're drinking, and quite early around 1 AM it looks like she's going to be sleeping. So I say my good nights and head back to the dorms. I respond to something she sent me while I was out about the NFL playoff game (you see why she's a keeper now yeah?) and we get to talking and I end up picking her up at her dorm and bringing her back. We hang out for a little bit and she gives some very positive signs, e.g. putting her hand on my leg. She turns down my offer of booze and we pop in to watch a movie on my bed. We cuddle and kiss a bit, and by the end of the movie she seems pretty tired and is basically resting her head in my lap. After I turn off the movie it's around 3:40 AM so we curl up in bed together and sleep. We get up ~10 AM and we kiss eachother goodbye. So we talk normally during the day over AIM, and I go to bed to get ready for the first day of classes. After I've gone to bed she leaves me a message hoping I have a good first day, and then "and tomorrow i think we should talk about last night". That phrasing is the scariest **** ever, so if you're a woman, please don't use it. Again, we talk normally throughout the day, and I ask about that. "oh i dont know; im sorry about all that - like i didn't mean to stay over in your room and stuff you know - yeah, it just seemed sort of fast is all" So I have no clue what that means. We have pretty busy schedules and end up scheduling a dinner together a few days later. We eat, but nothing of interest happens and we have to go to class. I ask her later about hanging out on the weekend, but she says she's busy. So um, I'm confused. What is she doing and what am I supposed to be picking up? Am I doing fine? Am I screwed? Help a guy out, I'm borderline autistic. (BTW, both "Just a little" and "Perpetually confused" supposedly violated the Community Guidelines???)
whichwayisup Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 Do you like her? Look, you two kissed, cuddled and got intimate emotionally. Sleeping over and being in the same bed together can bring on feelings, even without sex. She wants to know what you feel for her........
Author AwkwardMan Posted January 21, 2007 Author Posted January 21, 2007 Do you like her? Isn't that clear? :\ (Both to the readers of this forum and her?)
Lauriebell82 Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 she might not want u to think that because she slept over ur dorm so fast, that u'll expect her to have sex right away. or she may just be pulling back because she thinks things are moving too fast. just be patient and give her a little room. dont pressure her to see u, if she really does like u and is still interested she will let u know.
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted January 22, 2007 Posted January 22, 2007 Sorry, but the way I read this is that she had a moment of weakness and she kind of wishes she hadn't spent the night at your place. Now she's avoiding you- when you asked her to hang, she claims she is busy. Now, I could be totally wrong but that's how it seems to me.
Author AwkwardMan Posted January 22, 2007 Author Posted January 22, 2007 Sorry, but the way I read this is that she had a moment of weakness and she kind of wishes she hadn't spent the night at your place. Now she's avoiding you- when you asked her to hang, she claims she is busy. Now, I could be totally wrong but that's how it seems to me. Yeah, I have no clue, I assume it's either this or the first thing laurie suggested. We have dinner plans Tuesday so I guess it'll become more clear then?
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