fatty Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 Hey guys, Feel insanely lonely tonight and need a hug. I am getting into that mode right now "I will never find anyone" type mode or " I am not good enough for anyone". So i just decided to come here and get some love. Plus I smoked a joint. HUGS for all the people feeling sad and lonely. Know that I am here in this battle with you. bye
Pyro Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 Hey guys, Feel insanely lonely tonight and need a hug. I am getting into that mode right now "I will never find anyone" type mode or " I am not good enough for anyone". So i just decided to come here and get some love. Plus I smoked a joint. HUGS for all the people feeling sad and lonely. Know that I am here in this battle with you. bye Your signiature says it all. Tomorrow is a brand new day with endless possibilities.
latefragment Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 i am glad you posted fatty. i feel the same way. pretty damn lonely these days... been "single" for 2 years now. it sucks. just got dumped again last week. I don't know why this keeps on happening to me. Not to brag but I think I'm quite a catch with all my work, hobbies, interests, sense of humor, personality, appearance, etc. etc. etc. and NO i'm not arrogant. in fact i'm pretty nice & sweet. i also seem to attract guys who like to disappear on me with no explanation. sometimes i wish someone would dump me by actually telling me so instead of disappearing *on a good note* i mean wtf is that all about. the thing about being single and strong, and happy being single, is i feel like i'm denying a part of myself, or not being true to myself, because i'm shutting down that part of me that wants to be affectionate and tender and loving in a romantic way towards someone else. but shutting this part down is necessary to assist in the healing process and for me to feel whole and complete as a single (as in unattached) person. anyway gld you posted fatty. if only i didn't like snuggling/cuddling/kissing and being close with someone, then maybe i could rid myself of this perpetual cycle of rejection and hurt. wouldn't that be nice? guys, please stop rejecting me, and if you do want to reject me or dump me, please actually pick up the phone and call me and tell me so instead of telling me you are falling for me and acting like my boyfriend and then.. disappearing one fine day. i think i must've attracted every single guy in the world who pulls this trick...
Author fatty Posted January 21, 2007 Author Posted January 21, 2007 anyway gld you posted fatty. if only i didn't like snuggling/cuddling/kissing and being close with someone, then maybe i could rid myself of this perpetual cycle of rejection and hurt. AMEN TO THAT. I empathize your situation. I have been single for 2 years, well it was voluntarily. I just needed alot of time to heal from my last relationship. Now I think I am ready but yet I still mis my ex. But I have started a new program, talking to as many women as possible. It is quiete fun, I have met alot of women none have lead to dates but its fun just meeting them. But then comes along one night where you just can't help but feel sad and lonely. For you, you atleast know "red flags" to look for in future dates and relationships. If those men can't make up their mind and are such pussy's, you should chop their dicks off and mail it to them in a box. I hate ment who cannot stand up or take emotional responsibility.
hrtbroken99 Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 AMEN TO THAT. If those men can't make up their mind and are such pussy's, you should chop their dicks off and mail it to them in a box. I hate ment who cannot stand up or take emotional responsibility. that was HILARIOUS....I agree!! hey fatty...I am also here in the same boat...I also am fed up with men who cannot give me a clear explanation of whats going on and just run off. and as far as being in the "I am not going to ever find anyone mode" I am also in that and have already came to the conclusion that it will probably be like that forever and I just should just learn to accept that and move on and hope for other things I have a chance of getting such as buying a house one day, finishing up college etc. I know its hard...but stay strong and remember your not alone!
al8765 Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 When I get into one of those mood's, I call my mom and she tells me that I am one tough broad and reminds me of everything that I have accomplished: buying a house, finishing a college, getting an actual job, learning how to cook without throwing up the food, etc. Also, do you you have a pick me up movie? A movie you can watch and it always cheers you up? For me, its "Under the Tuscan Sun." I encourage you to find one.
latefragment Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 thanks fatty and everyone for your responses it sure does make me feel better. not to be a downer but i had a good cry this morning, good old fashioned sobbing upon waking up, coming to consciousness and realizing that i've just been dumped by the disappearing act, yet again (hey don't you wish your consciousness didn't slap you in the face with that fact upon waking up in the mornign?) wow, it felt good to just cry and cry and let it all out. i mean it felt good to cry but then afterwards you feel kinda, like a big crybaby ... do you ever feel that way? now that i'm done with the sobfest (i got my pillow and my hair all wet) im so embarrassed about it, like you'r e abig girl wtf are you doing cryig over some *******. anyway, it still puzzles me. i think i need to take responsibility for this. if i know i get hurt easily i need to just stop dating guys, period. i mean, it's not like i'm dating every single guy that comes along. they are spaced out in 3 to 4 month intervals, and in between that guy i go through a "no guys, i am not dating anyone at all" phase of healing... so it's not like ... well, you know what i mean, right?
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