Guest Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 For those of you that have been cheated on.....dont blames yourself..dont think there something wrong with you or you need to do something for the other person to work out your relationship..what happened could have never happened,when he/she was in the middle of it...they thought of you an still moved foward with there terrible descion.i dont know what you folks are gooing threw but i will say this...this is another fork in the road an you need to deside what you want to do... FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO WANT TO WORK THINGS OUT... if your married, nothing will ever be the same,when your driving home at 5pm you will still think about it,this is something you'll never forget an you will get upset even years later.could you really see your self with this person for the rest of your life? is change that bad? why should you have to swallow your pride an forgive them for the mistake? screw that..you have one life an dont you want to spend it with someone who is gonna make you feel good an have TRUST in a relationship???trust is the most important chemical in this whole shbang..it really is....you need to find your self..you need to find what makes you strong to move past these times...most of all dont bee fooled by what people say or promise ,if your reading this its for a reason...you dont have any answers an looking for help.. please when you make your decsion..think for the next 5 years...be strong...things change so fast, YOU GET ONE SHOT AT THIS LIFE....dont waste it.. ""Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours."" -thats the truth
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