ihearthuckabees Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 hey loveshack Me and my gf have been together for 2 years. Recently we broke up because it was hard for us to deal with the constant fighting and mental torture to each other. We feel that we are both immature still and we need the time apart for us to discover ourselves in order for us to have a better relationship in the future. In terms of communication, we'd still talk everyday but not that much as before. Also we'd live separate lives in which we would still hangout but not as much as before. Would you think this would be possible? We really want us to be together in the future and we love each other and cant see ourselves with anyone else but we also want us to learn things in life to be better people. The space would help us out
notmakingsense Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 Was it really mutual, or was she or you the dumper? Usually when a dumper says they need space to discover themselves it is because they no longer feel "in love" and/or they are interested in meeting other people. Sure, it is possible to reconnect again in the future -- but only if one or both of you have changed as people -- otherwise all the stuff that caused the trouble in the first place will resurface. Unless you are pretty young, people don't really change all that much. Your time might be better spent on moving on and meeting new people yourself.
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