Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 21, 2007 Author Posted January 21, 2007 why did you have a first date with your friends present? isn't the idea of a first date to get to know her? you've probably scared her off now. bad form TP. Ever since my breakup, I've had several "first dates", and I guess because of how things turned out with my ex, I've gone into every first date very edgy and nervous.. I thought that maybe a change in "style" for a first date might be better. My friends were planning on coming out for karaoke anyway, so I figured I can use them to help me feel a little more "at ease" about the awkwardness of a first date... Thankfully, my friends kinda picked up on that and went out of their way to make me "look cool" My friends are good people, and are very welcoming of "new people" into our group, so they made her feel quite at home, taking some of the burden off of me. I didn't have to "try so hard" to impress her, just got to let her see how I interact with friends. The way I look at it, part of a good relationship is fitting in with the friends of your partner, and also seeing how he/she is "at play", so..... it worked! And heck, I got to show off a little of my singing/comedic side, too, without seeming obvious (my friends can get quite nutty at times, so she knew it wasn't JUST ME) lol -tp ok, now what?
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 21, 2007 Author Posted January 21, 2007 Cool Tp! So how did you say goodbye? Something like "This was fun, let's do it again?" MJ - just curious A gentleman never tells... -tp still lowercase, if ya catch my drift
Mollyanna Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Well? I am dying to hear - what did you think of her TP and are you going out with her again? Miss ya! Sorry I have been "lost". So much going on here, some of it I am embarassed to post right now. But lesson learned, never lend money to a boyfriend! Now that I want no contact with him at all, I have to be the bill collector and it is getting ugly!
dropdeadlegs Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 TP, I could totally see myself going out on a date with you AND your friends if I were in your area and available. Then again, I am a gregarious creature in many ways, and especially with the right company. I love laughter and you provide so much here, in a way that is both endearing and comforting, not over the top like Robin Williams. I think you would be a great first date and beyond. Laughter truly is the best medicine and I like your style of humor. Glad the date went well and welcoming friends are completely okay and I would bet that they helped break some ice for her too. Good luck, hope she is worthy of many more dates, because I know you are.
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 Well? I am dying to hear - what did you think of her TP and are you going out with her again? Miss ya! Sorry I have been "lost". So much going on here, some of it I am embarassed to post right now. But lesson learned, never lend money to a boyfriend! Now that I want no contact with him at all, I have to be the bill collector and it is getting ugly! :) She's really sweet. She's my age (35, her birthday is today actually)... she's currently unemployed (she was laid off from her finance job 2 weeks ago), but she's looking. lol Perhaps I can find a position (or 3) for her.... *chuckles* We're going out this Friday to celebrate her birthday... dinner (just us), and then most likely meeting up with some of my friends at a club (it happens to be another friend's birthday too this weekend) Now.... *cracking knuckles*..... Do I have to beat someone up for you? You know I'd do it. Anything for my DS :) -tp doesn't think anything could get "ugly" with the hot DS around
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 TP, I could totally see myself going out on a date with you AND your friends if I were in your area and available. Then again, I am a gregarious creature in many ways, and especially with the right company. I love laughter and you provide so much here, in a way that is both endearing and comforting, not over the top like Robin Williams. I think you would be a great first date and beyond. Laughter truly is the best medicine and I like your style of humor. Glad the date went well and welcoming friends are completely okay and I would bet that they helped break some ice for her too. Good luck, hope she is worthy of many more dates, because I know you are. Dammit! And here I am, the self-proclaimed "Ultimate Leg Man"...... lol I can proudly say I'm one of the few guys who is rarely "impressed" by boobs. After all, I have my own! I'm more of a leg and ass guy. But now....you say my humor isn't over the top? LOL You haven't heard my act..... LOL It's umm.... over the top, it crosses MANY lines of decency, too! As for future dates... well, this will be my first SECOND date in....lol.....over a year, so.... who knows.... as "upbeat" and "optimistic" I try to be on here, realistically, I'm still very cynical and jaded when it comes to women. In other words, y'all suck. Well, except the ladies here, of course. And not my DS or my FW. (Have to cover all the bases so I don't get my ass kicked!) Anyhow... I'm not even near the point where I consider myself "in a relationship" or "dating" someone yet... just getting ready for a second date.... and keeping my fingers crossed. -tp hoping she finds the shift key
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 some of it I am embarassed to post right now. Got a light? *runs off chuckling* Love you. -tp like I'd forget THAT.
dropdeadlegs Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Dammit! And here I am, the self-proclaimed "Ultimate Leg Man"...... lol I can proudly say I'm one of the few guys who is rarely "impressed" by boobs. After all, I have my own! I'm more of a leg and ass guy. That's perfect, since I'm not all that blessed in the boob area! then again, my ass could use some work.... But now....you say my humor isn't over the top? LOL You haven't heard my act..... LOL It's umm.... over the top' date=' it crosses MANY lines of decency, too! [/quote'] By over top, I meant that Robin Williams sometimes can't stop being a comedian, and I think that would irk me long term. You inject humor at the right moments and can also state something from the heart, even if in a funny way. I like that. Indecency is VERY funny! As for future dates... well, this will be my first SECOND date in....lol.....over a year, so.... who knows.... as "upbeat" and "optimistic" I try to be on here, realistically, I'm still very cynical and jaded when it comes to women. In other words, y'all suck. Well, except the ladies here, of course. And not my DS or my FW. (Have to cover all the bases so I don't get my ass kicked!) Anyhow... I'm not even near the point where I consider myself "in a relationship" or "dating" someone yet... just getting ready for a second date.... and keeping my fingers crossed. Hey, if the first date wasn't so hot, who needs a second one. You are taking things slowly, as you should be, without unreasonable hopes, that is all that matters. Finding love cannot be forced, although I sure try, it has to unfold all on its own. Have fun in the process, at least as much fun as you can.
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 That's perfect, since I'm not all that blessed in the boob area! then again, my ass could use some work.... *raises hand* I'll work it for ya! -tp indecent, and is usually in, decently
AriaIncognito Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 tp never turns off the humor, don't let him tell you otherwise lol.... Good thing you slipped in the FW/DS thing else I very well could have beaten the crap out of you. It's cold here in NJ. BRRRRRRRRRRR. Dropping to 12 degrees tonight. Sucks!
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 tp never turns off the humor, don't let him tell you otherwise lol.... Yeah, but you love me. Good thing you slipped in the FW/DS thing else I very well could have beaten the crap out of you. Bring it ON! It's cold here in NJ. BRRRRRRRRRRR. Dropping to 12 degrees tonight. Sucks! Hopefully one of your "Jews" will be keeping you warm. :) lol -tp Jew#3 (?)
dropdeadlegs Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 tp never turns off the humor, don't let him tell you otherwise lol.... And he doesn't have to! Nor should he! But I see a very warm person who can be serious when he needs to be. Y'all keep warm!
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 Y'all keep warm! Hopefully, I'll have assistance with that tomorrow night. -tp already hard. lol
dropdeadlegs Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Hopefully, I'll have assistance with that tomorrow night. -tp already hard. lol Don't move too fast, now. Slowly, slowly. And have fun tomorrow night, my funny man! -ddl reigning the comedian in a bit
Lostgurl Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Awwww TP you kill me Everyone loves a man with a sense of humour! I'm sure you'll have her on all fours by midnight tops Goodluck and let us sickos in on all the dirty details
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 Awwww TP you kill me Everyone loves a man with a sense of humour! I'm sure you'll have her on all fours by midnight tops Goodluck and let us sickos in on all the dirty details From your mouth to her knees.... -tp me so horny
Lostgurl Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 From your mouth to her knees.... -tp me so horny Give er hell TP
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 Give er hell TP Trust me, it's all Heaven with me.... -tp a little rusty
dropdeadlegs Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Now what happened to taking my advice to take things slowly! If she sleeps with you on the second date, it's not about a real connection! I make men I actually like wait, but those I'm just hot for and don't see a future, well I won't go into all the details but, I make my strike and move on. Goodluck and let us sickos in on all the dirty details And I definitely want the details! -ddl bad reputation be damned!
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 I make my strike and move on. And I definitely want the details! -ddl bad reputation be damned! LOL...did I mention this girl bowls on a league? -tp right in da gutta'
Lostgurl Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Now what happened to taking my advice to take things slowly! If she sleeps with you on the second date, it's not about a real connection! I make men I actually like wait, but those I'm just hot for and don't see a future, well I won't go into all the details but, I make my strike and move on. And I definitely want the details! -ddl bad reputation be damned! Hey hey now.... He's a horney bugger ! But he's smart. I think that if he wants a second date he'll know not to pounce on her right away
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 Now what happened to taking my advice to take things slowly! If she sleeps with you on the second date, it's not about a real connection! I make men I actually like wait, but those I'm just hot for and don't see a future, well I won't go into all the details but, I make my strike and move on. And I definitely want the details! -ddl bad reputation be damned! Just remember, DDL.... *tp puts on his top hat and struts to the middle of the room* A woman who'll kiss on the very first date is usually a hussy And a woman who'll kiss the second time out is anything but fussy But a woman who'll wait till the third time around Head in the clouds, feet on the ground She's the girl he's glad he's found, she's his Shipoopi! Shipoopi! Shipoopi! Shipoopi! (everyone) The girl who's hard to get! Ahh...go rent the damned Music Man. lol -tp off to make a shipoopi before bed
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 Hey hey now.... He's a horney bugger ! But he's smart. I think that if he wants a second date he'll know not to pounce on her right away This is the second date... *chuckles* -tp (insert any of about 30 jokes concerning sex from my act here) Oh, ok... "....so the other night, this girl is going down on me, and she starts with the usual complaining.... 'are you going to tell me when you are almost done?' What the hell do you want me to do, fire a warning shot?" (yes, this crap is copyrighted by me) lol
Lostgurl Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 This is the second date... *chuckles* -tp (insert any of about 30 jokes concerning sex from my act here) Oh, ok... "....so the other night, this girl is going down on me, and she starts with the usual complaining.... 'are you going to tell me when you are almost done?' What the hell do you want me to do, fire a warning shot?" (yes, this crap is copyrighted by me) lol :lmao: :lmao:
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