Lostandfound Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 I received a phone call from a female friend of mine today, who is also a friend of my ex. Today she bumped into an ex of my ex, and basically found out that he isnt her ex any more , and that they are back together. Now this is where the sick part comes in, she was very inquisitve as to how he got back with my ex, as according to my friend my ex always loved me and still does, and hthat he really hurt her bad, both physically and emotionally. He replied, that he visited a guy in the city where he lives about the middle of last year, and told him that the woman he loves has now got someone elses and is madly in love with him (this person was me), and was there anything he could do. This guy was a spiritualist clairvoyant and a healer, he read for this guy, and told him who i was, what i looked like and things about me that this guy would not know, (I have never met him), and that it is an easy one to solve as I will put a spell on the relationship to end it and then when it is over, another one to give you control over bthis lady and you will get her back, she will never leave you again, and always be by your side, rergardless of her feelings, she will have loyalty to you like a father. The visit to this spiritualist took place exactly 4 weeks before the break up Now this guy has never met me, and he does not know that the girl he was talking to is a friend of mine, and she got straight on the phone to me and told me, she said my ex is behaving strange as it seems she is in this bad realtionship but does not want to get out of it, or more like cant. What the hell am i dealing with here, She is involved with something that she does not know, and in a relationship under false pretences, but what can i do!!
daisydo Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 Good god. That is really messed up. But unfortunately it her life and her business now. The relationship is over and you have to focus on moving on with your own life. It must be painful to see your ex involved with some controlling, desperate person but you have to worry about yourself. The relationship is over. Just keep telling yourself that. Are you hoping to get back together with this person or are you just disturbed that your ex is involved with some person who probably has a mental problem? Bottom line: stay out of this situation. Getting involved will only cause it to become even more crazy. Your ex is an adult and can take care of herself. I also wouldn't recommend visiting anyone to cast a counter-spell. If that was even on the radar as an option.
Author Lostandfound Posted January 19, 2007 Author Posted January 19, 2007 Are you hoping to get back together with this person or are you just disturbed that your ex is involved with some person who probably has a mental problem? Well the truthful answer to this is yes. I stil love this lady very very much, and concerned for her for this reason, and for the children too, because they have told me many many times that they dislike this guy. A counter spell is not my scene, i had not even had the thought in my mind until i read it in your post. Is it legal?? She still admits she loves me, to others, and it all makes sense when she contacts me, its at times when this guy is not around, I know his work patterns because he was pestering her when we were together. When he ws just finishing work and just before starting She obviosly is crying out for help but he has this hold on her, albeit one she cannot recognise what it is. If she knew he had done this to her, she would go absolutely loopy, believe me. Are these things permanant does anyone know, is she stuck with him forever!!
daisydo Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 I do not really believe in spells. But I do believe in her feeling desperate and lonely - so yes this guy does have control over her because she is in a weakened state. It must be hard because you still love her so much but there isn't anything you can do. If you tell her - it could sound like you are crazy and she may not believe you. Now what about the mutual friend who found out? She can tell her what the other guy said and it would be coming from a more neutral place. Maybe talk with the mutual friend and see if she'd be willing to communicate this disturbing fact. It is always sad when children are involved but you really need to tread lightly on this situation and keep yourself out of it unless you truly fear for her immediate safety. But odds are you think this dude is creepy (rightfully so) and miss your ex. So I would continue NC and stay out of this mess. You can only hope that friends and family will step up to the plate. And no I don't think it is illegal for someone to cast a spell on anyone. I think any lawyer would laugh at this whole situation.
Author Lostandfound Posted January 20, 2007 Author Posted January 20, 2007 Yes i agree, the friend is a good friend of both of us, and before she has tried to tlk sense to my ex, and that I am a wonderful man, and why dont you go after him, and stuff like that, and she was told to keep out of it, this is so unlike my ex, but it all adds up now the change in personality. I will wait and see if i receive contact from her soon, if not I will think of another way of dealing with this. I am not prepard to let someone I love stay in a relationship that is damaging for her and her kids, and restricting her from doing what she truly wants to do, I told her a few months ago after we broke up, that i love her unconditionally, and i would do anything to help her regain the ability to love again, I desire this to be with me, but if it is with someone esle i can say that i helped you because i love you, she started crying, and said that is the best thing anyone has ever said to her, and she knows i am the most fantastic thing that has ever happned to her. But this spell seems to be overshadowing it.
Guest Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 Well I believe in the power of spells, perhaps as much as some would believe in the power of prayer. Having said that I do not wish to debate the whole religion thing. I think it is a focus and envisioning a wish. The first rule of spell casting is....you don't talk about spell casting. So you see, this guy by his own boasting, has broken his own spell. I guess he is not too bright. Or his goth buddy did not clue him in on that little rule. My guess is that by the next full moon they will break up. Tonight is a New moon. This is a great time for you to cast a protection spell for yourself, and for her if you wish. I am sure google could be your friend here. You could probably find one to bring back a lost love. However, you might just want to be careful what you wish for. Oh, and tell no one of your spell. Now, all hoo doo aside. The real reason why I think their reconcilation will fail is simply because it did before. If all we had to do was wave a magic wand to fix our relationship problems, well I would be in the magic wand business. At some point relationships, healthy and rewarding ones anyway, take work. Doesn't sound as though this guy up to that kind of challange, and maybe she isn't either. Look out for yourself first.
Author Lostandfound Posted January 22, 2007 Author Posted January 22, 2007 Mhave thought about this for the weekend, and today i called the friend that he spoke to, and told her that i am disgusted with this behaviour of someone who tries to control someone in this way. Even more so that it is affectiong somoene i love with all my heart. She asked me what was i going to do about it, and basically i tild her i had not made my mind up yet. She told me that the ex is in a really bad way, behaving and acting like she is sulking all the time, and wants something but cant have it. I know she is a grown up adult, but this is so unfair, on her and the children, and in some cases me, She wants me, she knows i want her, but this hold is unbelievable, if i had read this on another thread i would not have believed it, but when it happens to you, its frightening. Someone said here that she is an adult and can make decisions, and can live her own life, but it seems obviously not, this "magic" seems to be stopping her from doing what she actually wants to do
princessa Posted January 22, 2007 Posted January 22, 2007 Whoaaaaaa.. Spells?? I've never believed that those exist.. I dont know.. have you considered consulting a mystic for suggestions / remedies??
Author Lostandfound Posted January 22, 2007 Author Posted January 22, 2007 I dont know.. have you considered consulting a mystic for suggestions / remedies?? Of course i have the thought has crossed my mind, but its stooping to the lowest form, and i dont do that. We wseemed to be making progress as well post break up, she told me she missed me very much, and we were speaking, now this i really do not know how to approach her, as we have had no contact whatsoever for a week now. I stil love her with all my heart, and believe deep down she still feels this for me, but with this crap hanging over her head, and mine come to think of it, i really dont know what to do. I have dated, but it just isnt the same, it really really isnt.
princessa Posted January 22, 2007 Posted January 22, 2007 Of course i have the thought has crossed my mind, but its stooping to the lowest form, and i dont do that. What do you mean stooping to the lowest form??
Author Lostandfound Posted January 22, 2007 Author Posted January 22, 2007 well i think it is disgusting what this guy has done to her, and by me doing something equal to it or even stronger, i would be really bad. The thing is my ex is a lovely lovely lady, and does not beliebve in any of this type of thing, and so if i was the one to tell her, she would go crazy and think i am completely off my head. I want to get her back using what i have , my love for her, my kind heart, and my desire to be with her, battling with the mystics is frightening for me, unless you know something else i can do
princessa Posted January 22, 2007 Posted January 22, 2007 Can't they like... cancel out spells?? Wow I can't believe I'm even suggesting that. Let's get serious here, where the hell do you even get the idea that it is the spell that makes her act this way and not her own will??
Author Lostandfound Posted January 22, 2007 Author Posted January 22, 2007 its in the first post of this thread, its not something she would lie to me about, and to be honest, im glad your on the same frequecy as me on this. I just sat down to dinner with my mum, and she asked if i had heard anything from my ex, and i told her, what had been happening, and she told me, If she was my ex, and this was going on, i would want the man to come over and woo me back, love is a strong emotion, but is it stronger than some ancient magic spell. I really feel like banging my head against the brick wall with this one.
shockandawed Posted January 22, 2007 Posted January 22, 2007 Lost, What about the friend as was suggested earlier. I see you spoke, but doesn't clarify if you asked her to bring it up to your ex. I agree that she would have a much better effect than you doing it.
Author Lostandfound Posted January 22, 2007 Author Posted January 22, 2007 I have already done that, but the friend is not going to get involved, mainly because my ex knows that our friend does not really like this guy, and wants us to get back together, so therefore the ex will see it as being biased
Author Lostandfound Posted January 23, 2007 Author Posted January 23, 2007 I have recieved 2 strange texts and 1 strange call this evening, one text from my ex mobile phone, The screen just read ? And a second text from another international mobile of the same country about 3 hours later , saying, and this is translated If you want to find out the truth, and that she wants you bad, call her now Then about 20 minutes later, a Private Number called, and i could hear crying in the background, and foreign language tv, from the same country as she lives. Part of me wants to call her and find out if she is ok, part of me thinks am i best out of it.
princessa Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 I thought you wanted to get her back?? Why not call then?
Author Lostandfound Posted January 29, 2007 Author Posted January 29, 2007 Well I havent put a spell on her to counter act the other, but I have visited a very very good spirit/medium /clairvoyant, and just sat there, she asked me a few questions about why i wanted help, and gave absoluteley nothing away about the situation, I wanted her to prove she was what she said she was. She told me things that only I or my ex would know, and described her to a tee, and where she is living, and also about her past and my past, now when i hear this i think she is genuinely gifted. I tell her about this "spell" that has been put on my ex, and she said although a spell has been put on, which she confirmed, the emotion of love is a much stronger emotion. She told me that my ex truly does love me, but at the moment she is suppressing it, because of the spell. She has a fear of being hurt, as she was in previous relationships, and in time the feelings she has for me will overcome this fear. She has suggested I contact her, as this is what my ex wants, and just say that I am here for her, and as a friend. She also said that the children her playing a big part in this as they are always asking their mum, when we are getting back together, as we miss him, he would not do to us what Mr X did to us, he is a really lovely guy, he clearly loves us all I told her about the NC that i have been doing and she said that this is confusing my ex, as I have always told i love her, so why does he not contact me, but the medium agrees in why i have done it. She also claimed that she could see the place where we met was somewhere hot, and beautiful and that this woman played for me virtually straight away, all true. And what really sent me over the top, was the fact that she said, this lady thinks of you every day, virtually morning, noon and night, and has a photo of you by her bed, something i know is true as the last time I was at her house, in Septmeber, she had a photo of me and her by her bed. She gave a timescale (not to be quoted) of around3-4 months for this to be back on full swing When I asked her if she ever gave out news of no hope with people, she said yes, only death she would not reveal, but anything else she said she would be honest and upfront, as it is so unfair to tell lies. She even told me her middle name, which is an unusual one. Im blown away
Author Lostandfound Posted January 29, 2007 Author Posted January 29, 2007 Man, that is sick. Explain to me what is sick about the above post please. I visited a medium as i do every year or 2, one of the main reasons was a work related problem and also i lost a very close relative last year and wanted to see if i could make contact, but the medium also picked up on my relationship problem. I dont get what is sick about that
princessa Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 Oh I didn't mean to offend. I meant sick as in unbelievable. And besides, that is the title of youre whole thread, so I don't see why you're so offended about me using that term. In any case, I will stop posting to this thead seeing as how things are getting anal out of the blue. Good day.
Author Lostandfound Posted January 29, 2007 Author Posted January 29, 2007 No i didnt take offence at all, just curious as to why but now i understand. Millions of people in this country alone visit psychics for reassurance and for other reasons. I respect virtually everyone that uses this board, and their valuable views. So welcome your feedback princessa as highly as everyone.
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