GoodGuy177 Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 OK I've read a lot of posts on this board and there are lots of girls asking why they can't be "just friends" with a guy who likes them. I pose this solution: Girls... if there's a guy you know who you want to stay friends with but not "hook up" with, the answer is simple... set him up with one of your friends. You see, guys who are not currently dating anyone in particular are hungry for affection. They need a girl to like them back. They are chasing you because you are attractive and are not cold rejecting them, therefore they think they have a chance with you and will continue to chase you regardless of what you think of them. However, nothing better tells a guy you are not interested then offering to set them up with one of your friends. It's really a win-win situation. He will get off your back because he now has someone else to focus his affection towards, and you will feel relief from being overwhelmed by a guy who you don't have feelings for. It will also help develop the friendship, since now you guys have something in common to talk about (his new relationship). So.. for all you girls who can't get that guy friend off your back, remember the golden rule. How come more girls don't understand this? Link to post Share on other sites
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