GoodGuy177 Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 OK.. so I met this girl on New Years Eve, she actually picked me up, we hooked up all night and around 4:00am she had to go home cause her friend was sick. A few days later I stop by her restaurant for a drink and to say hi (she's a waitress). A week later we make plans, her friends and my friends, to meet up at a club. Despite numerous text messages telling us they are on their way, they never show up. I get another text around 1:00am -- she couldn't make it because her friend bailed and they couldn't find a ride or something. She sends another asking if she could come to our place the following week, but I never responded (I was pissed, obviously). Fast forward 2 weeks later, and I still haven't gotten a call. I thought by now she would call to apologize and make plans, but nothing. It's disappointing. Is this a cold blowoff? Or just her playing games? Here's some more details... About her: 20yo college student, gorgeous, works pt time About me: 23yo professional 9-5er, good looking, fairly confident The age difference is sorta new to me, I usually date older girls who don't play as many games. She lives with a few other girls, so it's possible she's just more interested in partying with them in college than she is in dating me, but that's no reason not to call someone. Anyway, the question is, do I bother calling her or move on? My buddies say they will stop speaking to me if I call, but she's definitely one of the most attractive girls I've talked to lately and I don't just wanna give up on it. Still, it doesn't make much sense for me to call her after what she did, and I don't want to appear desperate. Advice? Link to post Share on other sites
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