Guest Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 I would appreciate any and all input into this situation: Me and my ex started hooking up again about a year ago, but no relationship, no commitment. He told me he wasn't messing around with anyone else and i believed him. A few months later i found out he had a girlfriend and a few other "friends with benefits". I called all the other girls, telling them what a lying ass*ole he was. I ended our sexual relationship and filed paperwork in the court to sue him over money he owed me. I then got a restraining order to ensure he couldn't contact me for at least a year. I felt that if he saw i was taking such extreme measures, he would get it through his diluted mind i didn't want anything to do with him ever again. About 2 months ago, he starts calling me out of the blue. Since some time has elapsed, i wasn't as mad as i initially was and agreed to talk to him. We started hanging out again, and start a kind-of-relationship. Since the lawsuit was never about the money, i ended up dropping the lawsuit (last week), thinking we could try to get back together. Now he's being a jerk again. So i start telling him he doesn't have to bother with me no more, since the lawsuit is over. But then he tells me thats not the reason he began talking to me again. He tells me he wants to be with me. But the way he's acting doesn't seem like he's too interested in trying to be with me. Now i feel like i made a mistake dropping the lawsuit. What do you think? Anybody out there? Should i just go back to the cout and refile the paperwork to teach him a lesson?
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