Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 You asked for it. The title of the thread is "Ladies....rip me apart." It looks like they have. Yeah, I used that title because I knew the moment I said anything derogatory about women in our society - that I would be flamed repeatedly. "OMG he just said something bad about women" Can you believe that many women have negative traits? 5 minutes from now someone will claim I am sterotypical, even though I never once put ALL women into the same category. If you women don't like it, then stop behaving like petty &^%$, because i am not the only man to have this view. I am just one of the few to have the balls to say it.
Kamille Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 I agree with you that how we come to understand and live our sexuality is a social construction. I disagree with what this means for the fulfillment of our children (or any human)'s lives. On what do you base your argument that heterosexuality is more beneficial then any other kind of sexuality? I mean, we are struggling with overpopulation and resources exhaustion. And isn't a right to happiness beneficial to humanity? Or is it only popping out more humans that is beneficial? Who defines what is beneficial according to what criteria and interests? Whose interests are best represented by condemning any other kind of sexuality then heterosexuality? How does heterosexuality create line of exclusion with heteronormativity lands you better jobs in the corporate world? And female bisexuality might give you an up in the dating market? I don't judge any of those. I just ask questions. I think everything practice in its essence is equal and that differences emerge from social actors investments in accessing resources through (re)defining relations of power. In that, i am very foucauldian, another gay I love to read.
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 I agree with you that how we come to understand and live our sexuality is a social construction. I disagree with what this means for the fulfillment of our children (or any human)'s lives. On what do you base your argument that heterosexuality is more beneficial then any other kind of sexuality? I mean, we are struggling with overpopulation and resources exhaustion. And isn't a right to happiness beneficial to humanity? Or is it only popping out more humans that is beneficial? Who defines what is beneficial according to what criteria and interests? Whose interests are best represented by condemning any other kind of sexuality then heterosexuality? How does heterosexuality create line of exclusion with heteronormativity lands you better jobs in the corporate world? And female bisexuality might give you an up in the dating market? I don't judge any of those. I just ask questions. I think everything practice in its essence is equal and that differences emerge from social actors investments in accessing resources through (re)defining relations of power. In that, i am very foucauldian, another gay I love to read. I agree with you and believe people should have the right to chose what they want. I just happen to think the many that choose this path are ill-guided, even if they don't realize it. I don't have to accept a bisexual person in my own life, which is also my right. There are many reasons I feel that homosexuality is counter productive to the human race, but that would be another thread.
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 And female bisexuality might give you an up in the dating market? Just curious, I notice that you didn't include men in that statment. But you are right, bisexuality would do nothing for men's dating life, but this is just another example of a double standard in a Californicated society.
ash519 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Way back in the beginning of this frusturating thread people were trying to help you. You asked as to why you were not meeting anyone so we looked at your positive list vs your negative list and like you asked, gave you our thoughts as to why things are the way they are for you. People did not just choose you to start "attacking" but it is so frusturating trying to talk to and help someone who is so close minded which one day you will realize you are. You have a right to your opinion Kindred. If you think Bi-sexuality is wrong, then fine, if you think the bible is 100% the way to live, then fine. But you cant expect people to just bow down and agree with you and your ways. When you explained your beliefs it wasnt in a "this is my OPINION" way it was more like "I am RIGHT, you are WRONG and there is no other way then mine." People dont take lightly to there opinions being shut down as if they are totally wrong. You are wrong in thinking that. Opinions are just that. Nothing I say is the way life IS and nothing you say is the way life is either. It is up to people individually to decide that. And talk about attacking, you have attacked every person who had initially tried to help you. When you look for help there is a level of open mindedness you needed to enter with and you didnt. Me alone: You told me my bf was a loser, and you have me your stereo types on guys in bands etc. My bf has a great job, passions, takes care of himself, is loving and honest, cares for his friends and family, owns his car etc etc etc. He is far from a loser. And we didnt settle, and I dont have an Ex i just split from, bi-sexual tendencies (although i do think other women are attractive the act of it is not for me). I have a great job (2 in fact) and my bf and I did not settle for eachother. But due to you being so bitter you decided to attack me....and many others. You say that you are not stereo typical. Stereo types does not mean ALL in a category it means majority. You made comments about women, men in bands, men who are below you and why, bi women or men for that matter etc. I dont know. I feel bad that you cant meet someone. That you have been through a bunch of stuff. It stinks and it is not easy out there, but this attitude towards society and women is not going to help you find someone. Also, you say you meet women who date many guys, recently split from ex's etc...you chose to date those women so maybe you should go for a different type. they are out there. I am one of them. Well, now I have been in a great relationship for 2 years, but before that.
Kamille Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Just curious, I notice that you didn't include men in that statment. But you are right, bisexuality would do nothing for men's dating life, but this is just another example of a double standard in a Californicated society. Exactly. Male bisexuality is not really used the same way on the dating market. And you do have the right to decide you will not date someone who is bisexual. I would go back to what I said earlier. Date less and be more selective. Just make sure to define the traits of the person you are looking for in an affirmative positive way.
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 You say that you are not stereo typical. Stereo types does not mean ALL in a category it means majority. You made comments about women, men in bands, men who are below you and why, bi women or men for that matter etc. . Well then, let me make it official. Most women are selfish, petty $%#@!es. You don't like it? Change your behavior ladies. you chose to date those women so maybe you should go for a different type. I can only chose from what is available.
ash519 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 That is certainly not all that is available. There are great women and men out there you just seem to miss out on them, probably because the great women are turned off by your attitude of us being petty b's. And you know, I am sure that is how they treat you and i wish i could high five each one who ever had the intelligence to make you the way you are. You dont deserve someone like me or the other great women are out there. Well, i shouldnt say that...but until you change your disgusting attitude I pray we all have the common sense to stay away from you.
Star Gazer Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Most women are selfish, petty $%#@!es. You don't like it? Change your behavior ladies. If maintaining the status quo will keep YOU away, I pray to God that not one woman on Earth changes her "behavior." We don't need any mini-Kindreds running around.
ash519 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 I originally posted this thread seeking advice of this community. It has turned into me defending myself. Basically, some people here are attacking me. They point the finger 100% at me, because I am arrogant or whatever other derogatory word they can think of at them moment. . A while ago in this thread i pointed out how you think you are always the victim and here it is again. You say you've made mistakes etc well you need to actually think of that because it sounds like you say it cause it sounds good but you still blame everyone else. And you are the most attacking person on this thread, you arent defending yourself, you are attacking
Krytellan Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 I respect your opinion, but mine just happens to differ. Look at this sentence he wrote... "I think I may have mentioned this to you already... Sometimes if you give someone you would never consider dating a chance, you fall in love. This goes back to having an open mind." Actually, you are talking about me and that is not my comment... I quoted it for support. You will call it what you want, and I thought it was unusual myself. But can you see the difference here? Yes, it was someone that I normally would not have pursued but only for that reason. Everything else about her was great. But the important part, and the part you're missing perhaps, is that at this point, I AM ABSOLUTELY AND COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH HER AND HER ASS. That is not settling, what that is is a beautiful thing. If loving someone for everything they have and loving every part of them is settling... then I tell you everyone would be so lucky as to "settle" in the way I have. I'm simply trying to open you up to the possibility that just maybe you may like someone outside of your "template" more than you imagined you would. But ultimately, you will be the one living your love life and living through the consequences of your decisions. So personally, you could date an albatross with rigor mortis and I would say good luck with that. I hope it works for you.
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 And you know, I am sure that is how they treat you and i wish i could high five each one who ever had the intelligence to make you the way you are. You dont deserve someone like me or the other great women are out there. Well, i shouldnt say that...but until you change your disgusting attitude I pray we all have the common sense to stay away from you. Yes! Please stay away from me because I am much better without. My brother once said that every woman is a slut. If only I would have listened to him earlier.
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 If maintaining the status quo will keep YOU away, I pray to God that not one woman on Earth changes her "behavior." We don't need any mini-Kindreds running around. I can tell you live in California, because you have no clue.
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 If maintaining the status quo will keep YOU away, I pray to God that not one woman on Earth changes her "behavior." We don't need any mini-Kindreds running around. Oh but you've already created plenty.
CardPlay3r Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 If maintaining the status quo will keep YOU away, I pray to God that not one woman on Earth changes her "behavior." We don't need any mini-Kindreds running around. LOL funny star...can you imagine how he'd educate his children? :sick: Hey kindred you should move to the bible belt and marry a woman who believes in unconditionally obeying her husband. You might throw some BDSM into the mix to make it fun
Krytellan Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 I can tell you live in California, because you have no clue. wha-wha-what?
CaliGuy Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Yeah, I used that title because I knew the moment I said anything derogatory about women in our society - that I would be flamed repeatedly. "OMG he just said something bad about women" Can you believe that many women have negative traits? 5 minutes from now someone will claim I am sterotypical, even though I never once put ALL women into the same category. If you women don't like it, then stop behaving like petty &^%$, because i am not the only man to have this view. I am just one of the few to have the balls to say it. Having the balls to "say something" is not the same as having the "maturity" to let things go you have no control over. Cheers.
ash519 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 So you have a brother who is just as arrogant. Your poor parents creating such ridiculously disrespectful children, or are they the same way. Your mother must be a slut too. PS: judging by your old pic, you are just as ugly on the outside as you are on the inside. I guess i am now a petty bi$#&! And i know why you think that of all women, you drive them to be this way. I am now going to go on with my life with my fabulous friends and in my great relationship and you keep going on with your views and close midedness, your ugly face and your slut of a mother and enjoy PEACE
Krytellan Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Awesome. So can we all assume you are done polluting this site then? Good luck to ya.
ash519 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 I love that we proved that point to you. We all think of you as an ugly worthless loser too. You were right! You are the victim, we are all B's and sluts etc. Kindred you are so smart. And you are also destined to be alone
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 And you are also destined to be alone Do I care? Now go pull your panties back up before your man gets home.
CardPlay3r Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 No ashie don't go, stay it's great fun it's not that often you encounter someone as close minded hey kindred you should ask Al Bundy to join "No MA'AM", you'd fit right in
Author kindred_soulman Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 hey kindred you should ask Al Bundy to join "No MA'AM", you'd fit right in Thank you for the compliment. Having morals, goals = closed mindedness!
Star Gazer Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Oh but you've already created plenty. What the flying f*** are you talking about? You're as delusional as 99% of American Idol contestants. You DO care about being alone. If you didn't care, you're be completely apathetic - but you've admitted to being bitter and angry. It seems like that's all that suits you. He's a troll.
ash519 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 My rolls HAHAHA!!! Too funny! 5'8" 120 lbs with rolls!!! I love my cat, she's so cute!!!! I can be a B! Everyone out there can be a B, and I am being a B to you because of who you are. Loser! Peace out homie g money dawg
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