scuderia Posted January 18, 2007 Posted January 18, 2007 there was this girl who i was very close to but after she got to know other guy i kanna chucked aside... i liked her.. since knowing tt guy she only become friendly to me when she need help or is unhappy... but when everything is fine she won't even reply my msges to her... after 2 or 3 sms she will stop replying... anyway she got attached to tt guy n i have been in no contact wif her since then in between she did try to talk to me once or twice to make us back on toking terms but i was very angry by being used by her only when she got trouble so i did not try to save the friendship. i also dun think its best idea to be tokingterms when she is attached as it will affect me alot. today after 6 mths of no contact with the girl i liked, saw her in the lecture hall today... we din make eye contact at each other... but i saw her wif her guy and im sure she saw me.... only consolation was i was sitting wif the hottest girl in the lect.... on the outside i was like i was having a wonderful time in lect hall... but at the same inside myself i'm feeling wierd... a sinking feeling like tt that feeling is not as bad as i expected it to be but it still feels abit sad.... sigh... still will have this kind of encounters many more time... anybody know how to feel better?? im feelin down
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 18, 2007 Posted January 18, 2007 I think you are doing it very well, your taking the right steps by not contacting her. If she contacts you then don't reply back to her. This is to help you heal from the hurt you feel. Just go out with friends and if you do see her out with or without her boyfriend give her no contact, try not to even look at what she is doing. Move on to another girl when you feel ready, don't jump into another relationship when your not ready as that will be unfair on the new girl you will decide to date. Sounds like this girl who went with this other guy just isnt intrested in you relatioship-wise which why it is best not to fret over her. Were you two both in a relationship as 'boyfriend and girlfriend'?
Author scuderia Posted January 18, 2007 Author Posted January 18, 2007 I think you are doing it very well, your taking the right steps by not contacting her. If she contacts you then don't reply back to her. This is to help you heal from the hurt you feel. Just go out with friends and if you do see her out with or without her boyfriend give her no contact, try not to even look at what she is doing. Move on to another girl when you feel ready, don't jump into another relationship when your not ready as that will be unfair on the new girl you will decide to date. Sounds like this girl who went with this other guy just isnt intrested in you relatioship-wise which why it is best not to fret over her. Were you two both in a relationship as 'boyfriend and girlfriend'? we were both not in a relationship... but it was something more than normal friends but less than bf/gf... initially will be happy when she come to look for me when she is trouble caus i was happy tt she considered me close enuff to share her probs.. but later on i found out there was some new guy who owns a car in the pic and tt she was being friendly to me when got probs... i got so angry over this.... here i was caring so much abt her and helping her whenever i could and all she was doing was using me to keep her entertained while she was sorting out her issues... feel very let down... and the prob here is not tt i wanna tok to her or wanna see what shes doing.. i juz need some ideas on how not to feel lousy whenever i see them both together... at the current rate i'll be seeing them everyweek and i dunno how im ever gonna heal if i have to c them everyweek
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