aldo Posted January 18, 2007 Posted January 18, 2007 I met this girl in February 2004, she liked me from the beginning but I was seeing someong at the time, still, she would text me, bring me candy, etc, we became really good friends. In July that same year, I broke up with the girl i was seeing and she started to get into my life, September that year we became boyfriend and girlfriend. Later on I would find out she was leaving, she would be in The U.S. for six months (we lived in Colombia)... She thought I would break up with her because of the distance, but I told her I would wait for her. She left in January 2005, we managed to stay together, I called her, she called me, I Sent her an email everyday, it was a journal, so that she knew what went on with me. In June, she told me she wasn't coming back, she was going to stay there for at least 5 years, we decided to stay together, during this time, being away, talking everyday, we became really close, I knew everything about her and she knew everything about me. December, she came to Bogota for the holidays, we had the most wonderful 12 days, she asked me to keep waiting for her, she said she loved me more than anything, of course i loved her too, and asked for the same. January 2006, I spent a month in the states, and 10 days with her, again, the best time of my life, she showed me, her house, her school, her work.. During the month i was in the states she suggested i stay with her when i went back in the summer. June 2006, I Spent two months in her house, we did everything together, from breakfast, gym, shopping, cooking, laundry, everything. I came back to Colombia, at first she was really sad, she said she missed me too much, i said i would try to travel there and stay with her, but it wasnt possible. She then started to act a little weird, she wouldnt make plans for christmas, etc. She then found a new job, and that meant less time for me. November 10th, she emails me and says we should break up, she says she wants to marry me in the future, but that right now, its just too difficult, we are apart, she doesnt have time for me, etc. After 2 weeks of beggin, i finally accept her decision, I then tell her I can't keep talking to her, that it is harder on me. We had a messenger account that we shared, one day, i check the contacts, and i see she called this number one day at 2 a.m., I call and I ask the person, he tells me he works with her, when i ask him if they are going out, he laughs and tells me to ask her. I call her, and ask her, she says it is none of my business. NExt day she writes the most agressive letter saying she can do whatever she wants, that we are no longer together, she asks me to live my life. I then talked to her mother, and told her, she had left me for someone else, the mother got angry and complained to her, she also said things i hadnt said, like this new guy was always drunk and stuff. Her mother then calls my mother and tells her, i lied about her daughter and that she left me because she realized i was not the right person for her, they are christians and i am not. I stopped talking to her. January 11th, what would have been our monthiversary, she emails me, saying i betrayed her, that i shouldnt have said those things, that this guy was never anything, she just liked him for 2 weeks, that she did have plans with me but that now everything is ruined. I answered saying, that i still loved her and missed her like crazy, she wrote back yesterday, saying she doesnt understand why i say i love her if i told her she had lied to me, used me, hurt me, and broke my heart. ANyways, I thought communicating again was a good idea, but we are not going anywhere, I still feel bad, she did break up with me, and now she feels bad, she thinks i didnt' act the way a man who loves someone would have acted. I wrote again, told her i wouldnt write again, this is hurting my even more, the thing is, i really do love her, I dont want to lose her completely.
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